Before I talk about the popular book, Why Women Deserve Less written by Myron Gaines, I want to actually say one thing before I even proceed to this review...
I've already mind-fucked myself to have a healthy ego and think in terms of having the self-love of a narcissist. As in here's what I will say about the title...
I see why Myron went for the polarizing route, in fact, in that sense, I strongly relate to this guy as I am often a loud motherfucker on my fitness articles because we TRULY are in an epidemic of beta-males.
What I am saying to you (the reader) I already think highly of myself. So much so that I've recently broken it off with a GOOD woman due to putting myself first.
So with that said, I want to proceed by saying this to you my friend. Most men cannot even have the healthy narcissistic view to REFRAME REJECTION AS A LEARNING LESSON.
Yes, I've said this on my podcast called Why Healthy Self-Entitlement is Attractive. I've said many things that Myron consistently says on the Fresh and Fit Podcast. So with that said, let's start out this book review...
Tom, Dick and Harry
Tom is the classic nice guy, I relate to this dude the most, I've actually been bullied myself years ago, but it wasn't over a woman, it was because I went through depression.
He took courageous action to step in to his fears with a full heart. Fucking legend. In result, he got rejected online. If I met this dude, I'd say to him, "Hey man, don't sweat it, you are in the arena taking action when other guys are afraid to do it."
This man is a fucking WINNER. This is what I say on how to reframe rejection. When you are rejected, you fucking won. Yet, no guys are willing to look at rejection as a win.
They base it on their entire ego. They let it affect them. Tom, you are a fucking legend.
Dick, I'm about to tear this man's story to pieces. Bro, you let the woman Jane initiate the date. That's not how it works. Brother, you are a MAN.
Take note here guys, if a woman orchestrates a date, she see's herself as she is in the power masculine position. This is the wrong move. It's no wonder he got exposed to push pull from the female perspective.
If a woman never texts you back, here's why (in fact it requires a full article.) I'll keep this simple, Dick let Jane walk on him. Fucking pussy. I mean that with tough love.
Harry, this man lived a long life. I have compassion for this man as he lived to 78 years old and struggled through constant poverty. I feel for you brother.
But here's where it only goes so far. He was nagged on. If a woman ever nags even once, it means he lost power to his woman.
Feminism Burnt The Old Contract
Taken from the book itself, here's what the old contract is known for:
"Men provided resources and protection. Women provided sex and (if wanted) children." -Why Women Deserve Less
Now let's really think about this, haven't you read my article why society shames masculinity?
Brother, you've gotta go through that article because that will AWAKEN you out of your fucking slumber to realize that men have been emasculated worldwide.
Traditional gender roles is frowned upon, here's why I do like this book (which I will cover more later) one of the reasons is because Myron knows that all women meet their physical needs through men.
Yet, all women have been fucking brainwashed by the masses because they don't think for themselves, they follow what every other powerful women are doing.
Then they brag about when they get their man to do shit for them. It's like, "REALLY?" If you are a woman reading this article, you pull that shit on guys like me, get out of my fucking life, you are what I call the wounded feminine.
You mis-use your feminine energy to manipulate men and Myron is very smart to point this out in the book Why Women Deserve Less that men are easily manipulated.
The Ugly Truth in Why Women Deserve Less
In Rollo Tomassi's words, this is what apparently is the ugly truth... "Women hate beta-males so much, they'll assume $150K+ in student loans to go to college for 4-8 years to qualify for a 40-50 hour per week, soul crushing job just to avoid marrying one."
This is where I will address the one con to this book, it puts the reader in to the mindset of all women hate men. Yes, on a big scale, Myron is 100% correct. There are movements created that he covers in great detail as to how shallow women have become.
However, here's something I've learned through going through a healthy relationship (which unfortunately is no longer moving forward because I ended it.)
Myron is putting the reader in a state of fear. Well done, Myron, if you stumbled across my review, I have mad respect for what you do, however, there's one big missing piece you gotta say on your podcast.
Your book targets emotionally incapable women. That means, there ARE emotionally capable women. That doesn't mean I don't like your book, in fact I give it a very high rating.
The #1 Reason Men Must Read This With a High Guard
I think that any level-headed, grounded, centered man will read this and think, "This is a brilliant way to get men to think that all women suck ass."
Now again, this doesn't mean, I don't like his book. This is my biggest issue with it. Here's the thing, if you've read my own books, you'll know how I overcame the "red pill" because going through toxic relationships.
I read this book with a very high guard because I understand that not all women have stepped in to their wounded dark feminine energy. In fact, there are good women out there. So read Why Women Deserve Less with a high guard.
However, I think that in the hands of naive men, they will use this book as an excuse to stop dating altogether.
Why Myron Gained My Respect
I absolutely loved this interview with Jason Capital. I mean come on, you knew this was coming!
Myron gained my respect when I came across this interview, I know this is a book review, however, this man is a smart motherfucker.
More importantly, regardless of this being a book review article, I must point this out to you the reader. Even though, this a book review, what JC covers is beyond just getting girls, he covers the psychology behind why women favor higher status men.
And as you guys already know, I've written an article on Female Hypergamy and how I got a married woman attracted to me. This is the reality brothers. Women will ALWAYS favor status above all.
Attraction is created in the turmoil of emotions. Once you hit their emotional lizard brain and get passed their subconscious invisible hierarchy by positioning yourself as an authority, it's over, she will want to fuck you.
I will say this over and over again, this is precisely why showing off resources to women gets you nowhere but lands you in the provider category in a woman's mind.
Pro's of Why Women Deserve Less
He does state a lot of facts. The facts are 100% true. In fact, this fact may piss in a woman's enraged masculine mindset that something I hear very few coaches talk about and that is "The Principle of Least Interest" is a power move.
In fact, I often talked with a few women about this, the healthy ex-girlfriend, she understood this. Because we consistently had civilized conversations as to why everyone in society has relationships all fucked up.
Women are naturally meant to chase men, it's not the other way around that some social justice feminists want you to think. They WANT you to think that they are the prize. But you my brother, as Myron puts it, YOU DESERVE MORE.
So yes, I agree with Myron that there are an army of simps. In fact, I'd take that above and beyond, there are nice guys worldwide. As I say this consistently on my podcast, "Men have placed women as their purpose."
This is why I am rating this book a 9 out of 10. You the reader, fucking listen, this is my message to you, learn game and how to flirt properly. This is what Myron says, and now you'll hear it from me, learn this shit.
Go through my dating and attraction articles, you'll notice that half of the advice I give is for you to add more push to your game. Too many guys (me included) have been guilty of being pussies. It's time you grow a pair of nuts. Be polarizing.
The point here that I am making is Myron tells the reader to value themselves more than how much they value women. As I said already in what women find unattractive, you don't see yourself as higher value.
I've stated this since the day I started my blog. Stop falling prey to buying women shit. Obviously, if you see she reciprocates and she is healthy, and won't be what I call a Pampered Royal...
In layman terms that means, expects to be entertained and spoiled, given a free hand in life, then yes you can reciprocate. But here's how to lead with value:
Do it from a place of not expecting sex. This is the biggest mistake all nice guys and beta-males make.
And it's why you never get sex, this is why I say nice guys are inauthentic. You overcome the nice guy syndrome by doing this one simple thing...
BE A MOTHER-FUCKING SAVAGE AND EMBRACE YOUR DARK SIDE
Con's of Why Women Deserve Less
I really have to give you a big warning about this book, Myron takes the route of freaking out the reader. Classic marketing move and that's smart on his part.
My point down is this is my number one problem with this book, I think that men will use this as an excuse to give up on dating altogether.
Just to give you some examples of some scary facts, again, all true, but you've got to guard yourself to not let this book be the reason you stop meeting and dating women:
- Nearly every man today has been accused of being sexist or a misogynist (I know this because I've been called one)
- Male virginity has nearly tripled, going from 11% of young male population to 27% *
- Percentage of young women who haven't had sex in the past year has increased by 50%, going from 12% of the population to 18%. I recommend you start keeping condoms in your back pocket.
- 70%-80% of divorces are initiated by women, jumping to 90% if the woman is college educated.
- Testosterone levels can be used to measure sex drive, putting women's interest in sex at only 6.7% that of mens.*
That last one I knew about, I mean, there is a very clear reason why I have so many damn articles on Health and Fitness. You've got to increase your masculinity (testosterone) brother and you do that by getting your shit together, get healthy and workout.
The Final Verdict
I actually got a good laugh out of this entire book, I was laughing at half of the shit that I knew would eventually happen in today's society. How college and universities favor women over men, it's so over-the-top with the scare tactics that I was very entertained.
Which means I really do like this book. I recommend all men read this, and to remember that you must read it with a very high guard as this book should not be the reason you stop dating, as I said, I've been in healthy relationships.
I've seen both sides, ugly relationships, and healthy relationships. Just go through my relationship articles and you'll find I always blog about my learning lessons.
My learning lesson as of recently is I have a dark side and that dark side is I've put up walls around my heart. Simply put, I'm guarded with everyone. I'm basically owning up to something...
I am not emotionally available for anyone. It's hard lesson for me to get through because women may find this attractive, however, I really have to warn you from experience if you are the same way...
I encourage you to live with an open heart. It's the healthiest way you can meet and date women and have healthy relationships. It may suck when you go through breakups, because let's face it, living with an open heart is scary.
Follow your fears and do it. Even though I do recommend this book, the number one lesson I can tell you brother. Adversity introduces a man to himself.
Feel comfortable to reach out to me for any questions at AdamSkoda@MasculineMindsetCoach.com.