July 1

What is Preselection? How to Use it to Your Unfair Advantage

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You are going to learn what is preselection and how to use it to your unfair advantage with girls.

I must add the biggest caveat to this article, the first picture you see is not my current partner.

I am only repeating these stories to show you the power of pre selection in dating.

The girl who I am CURRENTLY seeing has a boyfriend so I am not at all publicly stating her name. Let's move forward. 

My previous partner literally didn't give a single fuck that I posted podcasts with each other, just read Celebrating Masculine Mindset Show

I want to move forward with the topic of preselection.

You must know about this if you want to attract the quality women, I know that you want.

I am going to give you three easy ways to leverage this principle so that you can attract women effortlessly.

I want to begin this article with a story that happened at the beginning of the year in 2022.

A Story of Preselection That Happened in Real Time

It was January 1st in Hocking Hills State Park in Cambridge, Ohio.

I saw a front desk lady at the gift shop right by the hiking trail of Old Man's Cave.

I recall that I was shopping for a family member innocently, and a tall young woman was sweating me.

Emily told me, “Adam do you see her looking at you?”

I said to her, “Yes I see her looking.” As I glanced over to see what my girlfriend was talking about.

So when I walked up to the desk to pay for the gift I got for my brother, she wrapped it very anxiously.

This is what women do when they are attracted. They get very uneasy and they don't want to be seen.

So when I left, I told my girlfriend about pre selection.

“Yep, I saw it too. She couldn't keep herself contained. That's preselection babe.”

Then we both talked about it while we went hiking in the wilderness.

Why Women Love Unavailable Men

What is preselection you might be wondering?

It is the cognitive shortcut that women want a man that already have other women in their lives.

Simply put, women often want what they can’t have. That is highly attractive my friends.

That’s why married firefighters are so damn attractive. Just like a political party selects candidates to represent them, women select men who are already 'endorsed' by other women.

That’s also why attractive women love hanging out with men that are unavailable.

They think of them as a challenge. This gets girls attracted.

Scarce men, married men, bad motherfuckers surrounded by women.

This is what women want and it turns them on. If you have a girlfriend, take her out.

When you are in an open relationship, it’s very powerful to show her off to other women. 

Why Preselection Works

When you see beautiful women, be normal around them. Other girls notice when you stop caring.

Talk to girls normally. Make friends with girls. Don’t be seen by other men.

So what’s the point behind the principle of preselection in dating?

It communicates value. Guys see you as a pimp. Girls see you as higher status.

This ramps up desire like crazy. Many men notice the girl you are with. And girls notice it even more.

When you have girls with you, it’s the first thing they notice. Sometimes men can be assholes in a relationship.

It’s often why they date men that they know are no good for them and they try to fix them.

It’s time to break down pre selection and why pre selection works.

It's basically a cheat code in getting EXTREMELY good at the game. 

That's only one of the reason's pre selection works.

What is Preselection in Dating?

Have you ever heard of social proof? This is very similar to pre selection. Let me explain.

Social proof is the psychological phenomenon that where people assume the actions of others are correct, in result, they comply.

Preselection is literally the same thing as social proof in dating and social dynamics.

Michael Sartain, who I interviewed on my podcast calls it...

Mate choice copying in sexual attraction. [R]

Social proof and preselection is very closely related to what is known as, “The Herd Mentality.”

That means that when making decisions that other's also make, it becomes credible and validated.

In my seduction book, I discuss why The Herd Appeal is very powerful. This is basically social proof in motion.

In this book, you will learn why understanding female psychology is just as powerful as preselection.

When women see that you have female friends, they intuitively see that you understand female psychology.

Why do they assume that? It's a matter of simple evolution.

Preselection Shows You are Desirable

More importantly, women's desire for you will skyrocket when you stop chasing them.

This is why beautiful women hate it when men put them on a pedestal.

It's because it communicates that she is the only one for him. In case you didn't know...

There is no oneitis. Guys make the mistake of placing women as their primary purpose.

This is why you never supplicate to women, it turns them off so damn much that you'll be friend zoned.

Instead of being a fucking pussy, start learning preselection. Women sleep with men that are in-demand.

I know I may sound harsh but I'm Adam Skoda, y'all should know how I talk on my podcast already.

Preselection Meaning and How to Leverage It to Your Unfair Advantage

Click here to find out how preselection positions you as high status

I'll list for you three very powerful ways to demonstrate strong preselection.

  • Storytelling – Tell a story about how you don't want to be preselected by women.

  • Staging – Demonstrate your confidence and charisma around other women.

  • Preselected Approach – The most powerful way to open any woman.

Here's what preselection means: it means you are showing value by being desired by other girls in front of other girls.

Tell a Story on Why You Don't Want to be Preselected by Women

Click here to find out how to use preselection with flirting effortlessly 

So let's talk about telling stories about women you know. This positions you as a potential mate.

In fact, if you have pictures of you with other women in your phone, you can tell a story about what happened.

So, here's a recent field report in my social / sex life brothers. I hope you're reading this carefully. 

I told a front desk gym staff member that this girl who I talked to that I am not interested in her in THAT type of way.

Lastly, one HUGE attraction sign I saw in her is that feminine glow.

You can see it in their eyes, it's fucking beautiful. But I didn't say that to her.

Beauty should never matter to you brothers. Beauty is just one thing. Always screen for more.

The more you appear as a man that they can't tame, the more they want you.

But I want to be very clear about something, don't make up stories.

Women pick up on incongruence quite easily and they will call you out. Any girl will notice.

So if you tell a story, you want to stick to the highlights, don't put her to sleep and bore her.

Here's another reason why telling a story on how you don't want a very beautiful woman is so damn powerful.

Get good with words, get good at communicating clarity of intent, and showing options..

You will see success. Don't be a boring guy. Don't give away your balls in a knap sack. Why?

Because it shows that you are bold in your frame and looks isn't top priority, in fact, you screen for more.

You are clearly harder to satisfy and be impressed by someone that only possesses one attractive trait.

I encourage you all to go listen to The Michael Sartian Podcast. He came on my show and delivered the goods on what is preselection and how to use it.

There are so many ways to leverage preselection and use it to your unfair advantage. 

If you can actively show that looks is only one trait and you need to be shown more to be impressed, on top of becoming a local celebrity...

Then you are clearly one of a kind and women will proactively pursue you.

You are clearly harder to satisfy and be impressed by someone that only possesses one attractive trait.

If you are easily impressed, then you come across as gullible. Take that to the bank.

There are so many women that are given the benefit of the doubt because of how they look.

Then you are clearly one of a kind and women will proactively pursue you 😉

Staging Your Confidence and Charisma

I was at the drive-thru at Starbucks, and I ordered a drink in an Australian Accent. Check out this youtube video.

So you might be wondering, how is this staging? Are you saying I have to be incongruent?

Valid point, so let me thoroughly explain what staging is and why it works.

Staging is when you actively demonstrate how confident you are around other women.

When I had that video recorded, I grabbed the drink and all of the baristas were laughing.

And they saw me with my previous girlfriend Emily. This triggered everyone to laugh which shows self esteem.

That mean's I staged how confident I am by simply putting pressure on myself to order in a funny tone.

When you are jokingly incongruent, it plays a positive effect because you don't take life too seriously.

Remember to lighten up in social dynamics because I learned through experience that perfection is stupid.

You want to reach the flow state where nothing fucking matters and you don't care what happens.

So you might now be wondering how to stage charisma.

You stage charisma just by being giving value and genuine compliments when women are with you.

The compliments must come from a place of wanting nothing in return.

Come-on brothers, you should know by watching a classic dating advice for men youtube video that compliments are kinda try-hard.

The right way to compliment women is you must demonstrate non-neediness behind your compliments.

In my book , I give you a masterclass on developing charisma. If you want to stage charisma, get by book to learn more.

The most important point in developing charisma, you must be willing to let go of outcome.

People hate it when you have ulterior motives behind your likability, especially women.

So instead of complimenting from a place of wanting an outcome, learn to be outcome independent.

I want you to start expressing appreciation in your compliments.

Say the compliment in having a downward masculine tonality. Express it with passion.

A great example of a genuine compliment:

“I love how your dress matches your shoes, I appreciate the work you put in to yourself.”

That is how to give a genuine compliment without being too needy for an outcome.

Being outcome independent and knowing how to flirt in a higher status way, on top of demonstrating preselection will get you laid my friend.

But remember to drop expectations on sex. Don't force anything. Show safety around girls.

Preselected Approach

How often have you opened a new woman cold and she had a strong bitch shield? 

If you have done cold approach, you know about how there are MANY model-type women that have it.

In fact, I have been rejected by up to several women because simply I went out alone.

When I went out with at least one woman by my side, I was easily able to start a conversation warm.

Ever heard of a warm-approach? It shows you are not needy. Michael Sartain even touches upon this.

It's just like cold approach when you're alone but it's warmed up because you are with a woman.

It appears that you are already preselected. In truth, I've seen much more success in my game when I bring girls out with me.

I remember one time that I was at the bar. She's been working late.

One guy to my left, one girl to my right. I made conversation with these two people. Afterwards...

I started talking to the bartender very fast in front of the both of them.

I will leave her nameless to respect her privacy.

She saw me talking with the cute bartender.

One thing that I learned on my own through several social interactions is all women are testy.

Women use their feminine qualities to test men to see if they are congruent.

I was talking to the bartender, which means she saw me conversing with a woman.

That's how you leverage pre selection in full effect.

When you talk to a cute bartender comfortably in front of other women, it shows strong preselection.

I want you to consider making female friends and then going out to do activities.

Why? Because it shows that you are socially intelligent and you understand female psychology.

Women love a man that understands them. Pre selection shows girls you are a fucking legend.

All human beings have an addiction to being understood. Take that to the bank.

Summary: What is Preselection in Dating?

Make a Girl Obsessed With You

Don't underestimate the power of having female friends as you can leverage this in social dynamics.

To speak very bluntly, women want a man of higher value that has options. It's called Female Hypergamy.

Women always look for the upgrade even when they are with partners. Did you know that?

Now you do. The only way you can keep a woman interested long term is to simply be masculine.

No I am not saying be an obnoxious, overbearing douchebag. I can't even believe I have to say it.

That is a scarcity mentality and this is how you lose women, even when she is just a friend.

Let me tell you how you can get a woman to fully trust you and get them attracted.

That is by having female friends, demonstrating higher value, and more importantly, preselection.

It basically means you are high status when you demonstrate everything I just talked about.

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