In this article, I am going to reveal to you who I really am.. I’m Adam Skoda. I’m literally just a man that is sick of seeing people that want to be healthy but don’t take courageous action. I’m also a man that genuinely loves women. And I’m here to help people.
Lately, I’ve been hearing all kinds of comments from people I know that I won’t mention (for privacy reasons) that paint this picture of me being an asshole and thinks that I promote aggression just for posting an article on why women want you to embrace your dark side.
Now to be clear, these comments I’m getting are through people I’ve known for years. But more importantly, I’m getting DMs on my Instagram on how I seem to be this aggressive person on my articles. Which I’ll get to that later in this article.
I’m writing it to show you that I’m just a normal guy that wants what’s best for men that have been devalued in society, made to be more feminine in order to please everyone around them.
And really, I’ll be honest with you, my passion for helping men comes from where I used to be just like you. I used to be clueless with women at age 16. In fact, if you go through this article, you’ll know all about it.
It’s life experiences that shaped me in to the man I am today. Going through toxic relationships, and dealing with emotionally incapable women that can’t handle a man being on his path, and have higher status direction.
What I mean by higher status direction is you know what you want, you take action to get it, and you leave room for no goddamn excuses. I fucking mean that. I have an article on success loves speed.
This is another article people think I’m just an asshole that can be rude about people that come up with excuses.
Honestly, I don’t care because I am internally validated. I cannot control your opinion of me.
Why? Because if I have to be a compassionate asshole to point out weakness in you, I will.
Most of the time, these people I’ve known for years that call me “aggressive” know that I say “No” to crap foods like cheeseburgers and I also say “no” to any alcohol.
I recently had a terrible tragedy hit too close to home that even makes me question why men believe alcohol is needed to seduce women. It’s not needed, in fact, I believe alcohol is a fucking cheat. It’s being lazy and not learning seduction properly.
So what’s the reason for this article? Why write this? What’s the point? Let’s get to the two important reasons…
Men Have Put Women as Their Purpose
Every man knows that his highest purpose in his life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his relationship over his highest purpose, he weakens himself, disserves the universe, and cheats his woman of an authentic man who can offer her full, undivided presence.
-The Way of the Superior Man
I have news for you my friend. Women don’t want to be your number one priority. Obviously, in a relationship, it’s important to set aside time to spend with each other, but if she senses that you are even a little ‘needy,’ believe me, she will grow cold, distant, and will lose all attraction.
So here’s something that I want you to start doing, set goals in health and fitness, set goals to meet and attract women, because I’m telling you from experience as a shocking truth about me, a long time ago I learned fast how testy women can truly be.
Heck, I even stay motivated to practice social skills because I know how important it is to be able to communicate with not only women, but communicate with people effectively. This is called having good social skills.
If you continuously put women as your purpose, particularly when you’re in a relationship, here’s my best advice to you (and this applies to me as well) tell your woman that you love her, but tell her you cannot deny your heart’s purpose.* -David Deida
People Are Letting Their Health Slide Down The Drain
This is where I’ve been known for calling out weakness. Well, why am I so fucking passionate (and sometimes irritated by food companies) that makes me want to throw up?
It’s because this is the shocking truth about me, I hate McDonalds, Taco Bell, Burger King, Wendy’s, Mr Hero, KFC, Chick-fil-a, and fucking bullshit places that promote obesity and short-term pleasure.
It’s the easy way out, which so many people do. So many fucking people nowadays are fat because of transient sensory gratification. Discipline yourself to workout as this is the best gateway drug to higher confidence.
Not only does this frighten me (I admit) but this is the reason we see so many people unhappy. It’s amazing, we live in an abundant society, yet America is so damn weak to eat the crap normalized in today’s society to make you addicted.
My friend, I’m not lying to you when I say that I go to work and clean a building that PROMOTES health, and these people have bags of McDonald’s in the trash can.
You know I clean for my second job? And it’s disgusting the toilets I see that have shit stains. And you can see why this pisses me off as a personal trainer to see people that work in an environment that put’s on a mask to be “healthy” and the people working at that place cannot even discipline themselves to be even just a little healthier and choose to lead by example.
Masculinity Includes Aggression
So here’s one thing I will say on what society got right, that is there ARE negative repercussions of masculine and feminine energies. Why? Because both energies have positives and negatives.
That doesn’t mean that you start losing your mind and start behaving in violent ways. Simply put, there are unhealthy sides to both types of energies.
However, on my blog, what I teach guys to do is to use their masculine instincts to embrace the suck. Embrace that there will be challenges. And embrace their masculine side and use it to BETTER themselves.
In fact, I have a twisted mind sometimes, I OWN that. In fact, there are three crazy ways to control your subconscious mind in which you can become a faster, more decisive man that doesn’t hesitate to take action.
That aggressive drive you have my friend, turn that self-sabotage in to self-love and get the healthy body you want instead of eating like shit. One of the most interesting paradoxes of game and social skills is self-love.
In my experience, I simply turn my aggression in to PASSION to express my higher status truth. That is to help men reach their full potential. You see, that’s not toxic. In fact, quite the opposite.
I’m basically telling you to use your aggression but use it in healthy ways to better your life. The truth about Adam Skoda is this..
I WANT YOU TO SUCCEED. I SIMPLY MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR WEAKNESS.
War Against Masculinity
There has been huge movements such as third wave feminism and idiotic gender studies that honestly makes me nervous to post articles on masculinity (I won’t lie to you).
But you know what, I’m not gonna let that stop me from helping men rediscover their masculine core. Modern feminists are saying “fuck the patriarchy” for example. Any man with half of a brain can put two and two together and realize that this is the biggest fucking guilt trip that castrates men to the point where they have no balls.
Let me tell you why masculinity is extremely important (especially in relationships). It’s important because without it, there is no polarity in relationships. My friends, read this article, you’ll see that there are women that want you to be masculine.*
However, all of this war that attacks masculinity in my mind is extremely fucked up because here’s something that even you potential women reading must understand, you have masculine energy.
Everyone has masculine energy. The fact that there are movements against this, if you have to protest against social injustice, that actually tells me that you have stepped in to your masculine to protest against social injustice.
That is because masculine energy is mission focused, purpose-driven, passionate, and very dominant. Feminine energy is all about the flow. Think of the ocean. This is why you guys, women flake on you.
They flake because if they aren’t feeling cute (or notice a pimple on their ass) they get self-conscious and won’t want to go on a date.
There are a myriad of reason’s women flake, but simply put, feminine energy means that they make decisions based on FEELINGS. Men are much more emotionally dominant and we can control our emotions better.
Don’t take that out of context. I’m not saying men are better than women. Generally speaking, men are more capable of handling challenges and be calm under pressure because men operate differently than women do. And there’s nothing wrong with that.
Men must put their purpose as number one. Men must not lose sight of their masculine instincts. More importantly, men must not have shame surrounding their masculinity.
And this is why I do what I do. It’s to get you to understand that men must stop feeling shame surrounding their masculinity. Here’s the shocking truth about me, I am just like you my friend, I simply know how to use my masculine drive to succeed.
And the longer you let these stupid movements guilt trip you in to embracing your “feelings,” the more feminine and easily influenced you are.
Part of what I talk about in my Dating Services that you get when you sign up is how manipulative women REALLY are with their feminine qualities.
I like to call them seductresses because they literally scam guys in to going to their masturbation station where you pull out your credit card and they rob you of your money.
Do you really think that is MASCULINE? No man, it’s not. Part of what I teach my clients is to filter out low quality women that just want to take your resources.
If you have health and fitness goals my friend, I suggest we talk. However, I’m here to help you my friend. Even though, I’m a little hard on you, as I said already, I simply make no excuses for weakness.
I’m honestly just a passionate, self-driven and motivated man that sees a lot of weakness in today’s society.
And I am simply a very passionate about what I do, even if that means ruffling a few feathers and pushing the envelope. Because not enough guys are willing to do this.
This is also why I work with guys and I encourage them to take big risks. How else can women see how masculine you are?
That’s how they see it. They see it through the actions you show them. Women look at your actions more than your words my friend. That’s called congruence, and it’s why they test you so much.
If you are looking to gain a sense of higher status direction and develop your masculinity, you’ll find my free masculinity discovery zoom call.
To be clear, my fitness consultations are not free because I ask you to do exercises to assess your fitness level.
If you have one single excuse my friend, no hard feelings, don’t sign up. I have enough clients that are constantly vying for my attention and that keeps my schedule full.
Even if you don’t want to work with me, that’s perfectly fine, go listen to my podcast on Soundcloud or Spotify.
You’ll get some good insights in to what I do such as teaching guys social skills and becoming more masculine by lifting weights.
But eventually, there comes a time where you have to invest in yourself. I’m here for you if you want to achieve your goals on becoming more masculine in today’s weak society.
I’ll see you soon you charmingly handsome stud. Feel comfortable to comment below, I love hearing from my readers.