3 Bad Beliefs of A Low Status Male
Understanding Low Status
Low status refers to an individual’s position in a social hierarchy where they are perceived as having little power, influence, or respect. This can be due to various factors such as lack of education, unemployment, or poor social skills. When you find yourself in this position, it can feel like you’re constantly swimming upstream, trying to gain status but never quite making it.
Definition of Low Status
Low status is a state of being where an individual is perceived as having limited social, economic, or cultural capital. This often leads to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and a lack of confidence. When you’re low status, it’s like you’re playing a game where the rules are stacked against you. You might feel like no matter what you do, you can’t break free from the constraints that hold you back.
Characteristics of Low Status Males
Low status males often exhibit certain characteristics that make it difficult for them to climb the social ladder. These include:
Lack of self-confidence and self-esteem: If you don’t believe in yourself, why should anyone else? This lack of belief can be a major barrier to personal success.
Poor social skills and difficulty forming meaningful relationships: Social intelligence is key to navigating life’s challenges, and without it, forming connections can be tough.
Limited education and job opportunities: A poor family background or lack of access to quality education can severely limit your prospects.
Low income and financial instability: Financial struggles can make it hard to focus on anything other than survival, let alone gaining status.
A tendency to seek validation from others: When you don’t feel good about yourself, you might look to others to fill that void, which can lead to unhealthy relationships and poor self-worth.
Feelings of inadequacy drive lower-status males to assert dominance over women as a way of positioning themselves against other men.
Individuals from middle-class backgrounds are often better equipped to achieve higher status due to greater access to resources and opportunities compared to those from lower socioeconomic classes.
Understanding these characteristics is the first step in overcoming them. Recognizing where you fall short allows you to take targeted actions to improve your situation.
Bad Beliefs of A Low Status Male
When you get in the dating scene, it's important you know about movie mirages, how society messed with your head, and more importantly, bad beliefs of a low status male.
In fact, this is such an important topic that I have a podcast where I address low status beliefs that repel women in the coming weeks ahead.
So let me tell you all something, the thoughts you tell yourself consistently will MANIFEST. Your reality is dictated by the stories you tell yourself. That means it's time I touch upon Frame Control.
Think of Frame Control as a Picture Frame
Brother’s, your beliefs dictates how you experience reality. This is why I often say, frame control in a nutshell is you believe in your reality, in essence, a strong reality is a strong frame.
That means a weak reality means you don’t believe in your reality. You are skeptical if you’re good enough. You question shit TOO MUCH.
Everything in your life first starts out as a thought in your mind like a picture frame. You need to think through the mindset of a master artist who believes in his craft.
I don’t mean become an artist, just don’t doubt in your ability to be high status if you think its about money, because high status goes much deeper than that.
High status involves your style, your presence, how you lead women with your masculinity, more importantly, high status care-freeness matters. It’s the same shit as Alpha Indifference. A high status male is more accurately described as a dominant male within social hierarchies, rather than merely an aggressive one.
Low Status Males Believe Money is The Answer to Attract Girls
Brother’s, I recently invested in a podcast coach, some of you may have a hard time wrapping your head around this, but I invested over a thousand dollars.
Yet some of you may ask yourself, what does this have to do with self-investment? Here’s the FUCKING POINT, if you have low status beliefs in dating, you will have low status beliefs about MONEY.
That means, your relationship with women shows how your relationship is with money. Here’s the sole purpose of touching upon finances…
The majority of you may not know this, but I referred Jerremy Newsome to Marni of the Wing Girl Method.
Ask Women Podcast: Your Relationship With Women & MONEY with Jerremy Newsome
And a lot of you still think making more money is the answer to get girls. When you lead with resources, you get USED. Just be confident first before involving how much you make. Don't tie your worth to a piece of paper.
Instead, screen girls hard, make sure they aren’t going to use you for your resources. And then you don’t even connect with her because you fucked up by believing buying her shit is going to get you laid.
The point behind this section? I remind myself what I said on my podcast with Jerremy. Money is a piece of paper. Literally just a piece of paper.
Instead of believing money gets you laid, be the connector. The story from above comes to mind, that's an example of Introductions via High Status Connections.
Your Mindset on High Status Matters
It always cracks me up reading the comments of a YouTube video who promotes this lifestyle that men want.
"He has money so he has girls." That would be the comments I would see. And little do you all know that I've interviewed some of these people.
You need to look at yourself in the mirror and be confident enough to simply saw, I AM HIGH STATUS and I don't need shiny items to prove it to anyone.
That means, your mindset on what it means to be high status reflects what you think when you drop these LOW STATUS COMMENTS.
First step you must follow to become high status...
Stop jumping to conclusions that you think you know what it means to be high status, be humble, understand it takes addressing your beliefs.
You Have Been Told to Look Good and That Makes You High Status
I have a full article called Does Looks Matter? It goes much deeper than what I will cover today in this article.
These are called logical attraction triggers. You will always hear me promoting a healthy lifestyle. However, there’s a point where if you self improve for validation, then your in a constant cycle of disappointment.
Brother’s, my client I train consistently has a mullet and never shaves his face. Yet, he pulls girls like a fucking legend.
Understand that girls don’t pay attention to how you perform pull-ups as an impressive feat. You need to understand that your frame, your reality, your mindset on your looks matters much more!
The point behind this section is don’t fucking brag. I love cocky funny lines, but only when the girl I’m talking to enjoys BANTER.
Sure, I may come across as arrogant to some of you, but this is what you must understand… Attraction is built in the turmoil of emotions.
You Have Been Told That Women are Prizes and You Should Be Nice to Them
Have you ever noticed how in the movies there’s always the “Good” guy who chases the girl around school or around town, buys her flowers, takes her out, acts all “Damn girl, you are gorgeous” and gets nervous around her.
Then somehow, eventually at the end of the movie, the girls decides she had mistakenly been dating an asshole, and now she sees she was really meant to be with this other, nice guy who really cares for her, so after telling the asshole off, she runs into the “good” guys arms at the end of the movie.
Right, because that’s how it actually works in the real world. (when you see sentences in full italics in this article, just know that means I’m being sarcastic. Notice how I’m still in italics now :))
Ha. Yeah, we all have seen a movie like that. But as you know, this is not how to attract women. You attract women by being masculine, and be polarizing, more importantly you drop your proper etiquette persona.
You know what happens to guys who chase girls everywhere with flowers, and act incredibly sweet to her all the time? What girls have told me brothers…
Creepers. Stalkers. Freaks. And not in a good way. The guys who hook up with girls understand that chasing equals zero fucking attraction. I want you to tattoo this fucking statement to your forehead from my very first dating eBook…
REAL AUTHENTIC GUYS LIKE ME RARELY EXIST TODAY AND THAT’S WHAT SEPARATES ME FROM THE PACK.
That is attractive self-talk. That is a turn-on. Girls love a man that puts themselves on a pedestal. And that right there is why a man with a healthy ego is attractive. Just don’t take that ego you have and one-up others.
You Have Been Told to Watch Your Manners Growing Up
That's humorous. I picked that picture intentionally, because even though it comes across as STRANGE to a few of you, this is why funny guys attract girls...
It's because they literally don't care to impress people. So they often act how they want to act. If there is one belief that in my mind is the worse out of all of them that I don't see any dating coach talk about.
That is don't watch your manners because you don't want to be politically incorrect. HA!
This probably started when you were a kid, maybe in kindergarten. You got it form Mom, from your teachers, from Disney, it was everywhere. Watch your manners.
More important not to offend anyone than to actually say what you believe. Play nice. Don't take risks, not in this lifetime, who knows what could happen. Fuck that.
Notice my language, some people actually give a fuck about how I talk, that's because you were probably raised by sensitive parents.
This whole proper etiquette bullshit makes you low status. But the good news is this is not your natural hard wiring. It's just "soft-wiring" we're all brought in to when we are all kids. Awareness alone on these beliefs can be good enough to stop this crap.
You Have Been Told That Society's Reality is How Your Reality is
This ties directly back in to frame control. You think of the picture that society tells you how to behave, then you step into societies viewpoint of what you think is HIGHER STATUS.
But since when do you get to have a say in what YOU BELIEVE? That's how fucking subtle this bad belief is. Let me tell you this belief again.
You have been told that society's reality is YOUR reality. The reality that has been "Constructed," in general, is the one that is the safest for everyone. And you shouldn't express who you are. Bullshit.
Make sense? This is why when you apply self-leadership, you amplify masculine energy. (By the way, you can define a reality as "Social expectations." It's how you expect people to treat you, respond to you, and interact with you. We're generally TOLD what to expect, as opposed to DECIDING for ourselves.)
In truth, when it comes to meeting and attracting girls, you cannot let the reality that society has constructed to stand as your own reality, meaning, take back your masculine power and write YOUR REALITY.
Masculinity is frame control in a nutshell brothers. Learn that when you develop a masculine, dominant frame... You are now higher status.
I Must Seek Validation from Others
Many low status males believe that they need to seek validation from others to feel worthy or important. This mindset can be incredibly detrimental to your mental and emotional well-being. When you constantly look to others for approval, you give away your power and let others dictate your self-worth.
People-Pleasing and Seeking Approval
People-pleasing and seeking approval from others can be major obstacles to personal growth and development. When you prioritize seeking validation from others, you become overly dependent on external sources of self-worth, rather than developing your own sense of self-confidence and self-esteem.
This can lead to a range of negative consequences, including:
Loss of autonomy and independence: You become a puppet, dancing to the tune of others’ expectations.
Difficulty setting boundaries and asserting oneself: Without strong boundaries, you become a doormat, easily taken advantage of by others.
Increased anxiety and stress: Constantly worrying about what others think can be exhausting and mentally draining.
Decreased self-esteem and confidence: The more you rely on others for validation, the less you believe in your own worth.
Difficulty forming healthy and meaningful relationships: Relationships built on a foundation of seeking approval are often shallow and unfulfilling.
By understanding the characteristics of low status males and the belief that they must seek validation from others, you can begin to develop strategies for improving your self-confidence, self-esteem, and overall well-being. Remember, true high status comes from within. It’s about believing in yourself and not needing others to validate your worth.
The Takeaway
A lot of people have a weird relationship with the term "high status," however, today I wanted to dive deep in to the reason's why most people get it all wrong.
They think it's all the flashy shit. They think it's about owning a private jet. Even one of my mentors does show this type of lifestyle, however brothers, if there is one thing I want you to takeaway, that is don't let their version of what is high status get in your head.
Because when it comes to dating, money only matters if you want a serious relationship with a long-term partner. And good looks only matters if you have the strong frame behind it to believe in yourself.
That means even if you are good-looking and make good money, it doesn't make you high status. What makes you high status is EVERYTHING.
It's your mindset, your presence, your non-neediness, even your style, how you dress. So even though I covered mindset... You need to believe in yourself to BECOME that top tier man that girls want to fuck.
Related Article: Why There is No Oneitis in Dating!
Remember brother's, society also shoves in your face this idea of being with ONE GIRL. The idea that you could sleep with multiple beautiful women will never cross your mind and it will never exist in your reality if you're out there looking for that one girl to live with forever.
That means, you need to take-it-all. Have an abundance mindset, create your own reality, follow your own lead, don't live up to society's standards of what they say is higher status. You decide that.
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