READ AT YOUR OWN RISK: WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO DISCOVER IN THIS ARTICLE ARE DEADLY ATTRACTION TECHNIQUES
Do you want to turn women on fast? Do you want to get same night lays? Do you want to speed up the process of getting laid?
My friends, I decided to answer one of my readers questions on quick same night pulls. Just remember, you need to choose the right venues, not high-end venues.
And I want to be clear, this applies more to the women that go out ALONE.
Do not under any circumstance drag women in to an outcome she doesn't want. So here's what I want to say to you...
Understanding Sexual Desire
What is Sexual Desire?
Sexual desire is a complex and multifaceted concept that encompasses a range of emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations. It’s that magnetic pull, that irresistible urge that drives us to seek out intimate connections and physical pleasure.
It’s a natural and essential aspect of human experience, and understanding it is crucial for building healthy and fulfilling relationships. When you grasp the nuances of sexual desire, you can communicate your needs and boundaries effectively, leading to more satisfying and passionate encounters.
Why is it Important to Understand Sexual Desire?
Understanding sexual desire is essential for several reasons. First and foremost, it enables you to recognize and respect your own desires, as well as those of your partner. This mutual understanding fosters a deeper sense of intimacy and connection, making your sexual relationship more satisfying and fulfilling.
Secondly, understanding sexual desire helps you navigate the complexities of consent and boundaries, reducing the risk of misunderstandings and ensuring that both partners feel safe and respected.
Finally, embracing your own sexual desire can lead to increased self-awareness, confidence, and overall well-being. When you know what you want and can communicate it effectively, you’re on the path to a more passionate and fulfilling sex life.
Creating Tension Induces Sexual Arousal in Women
Guys make the mistake of over-sexualizing. Some of my podcasts are a bit steamy, but understand that you MUST show that you are not a creeper.
Don’t do anything unattractive. Show her you are not like all the other guys who will dip and then bounce. Be masculine, engage in playful teasing, and be a challenge.
You want to be savvy. Cocky funny would work well to get same night pulls. The reason? Very simple.
Have high confidence and certainty is key. Just be certain in yourself, not fake hard. Simply put, be authentically YOU.
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Lower the bar on what you think is socially acceptable to say. But listen to me brother, don’t threaten a woman’s safety. EVER. Let's keep going...
The Dark Triad Blends in Attraction
If you want short-term relationships, understand that the dark topics I blog about, they overlap in to seduction.
But please for the love of god, do not become a fucking psychopath.
I talk about having the certainty of one. But I never want you to become one.
Certainty is required for one-night stands. Never forget that. Just be certain in yourself. Don't fake it.
Brother's, girls fuck assholes for this reason right here, it's because they are not afraid to emotionally push their buttons.
I'll give you an easy way to push girls buttons...
"Stop giving me that sexy look, you're really pushing it. I don't think that ass is big enough anyways."
Before you hyperextend your balls and email me some rage-induced comment...
Understand that if you want to stop being the 'Nice Guy...'
You need to hack your own identity for two seconds and ask yourself...
"What would the more dark version of myself do to spark her emotional mind?"
Exactly my fucking point. Understand that I have got some hate (which I'll cover later) on some of the lines you'll see in this article. It's because men are not POLARIZING.
Warm-Up Before Talking to Girls
Showing high confidence when you come with powerful eye contact and high-charged positive emotional stimulus is very effective in nightclubs.
In nightclubs, high energy is expected. So warm-up, be social before you do this, but more importantly, keep your breath fresh. I really encourage you to look for highly feminine women that are by themselves.
However, don’t be stupid and go for your target right away. This is the biggest mistake all men make in nightclubs.
You need to warm-up. Talk to everyone. I don’t care if you talk to men to warm-up. Work your way up to talking to the women you want.
Here’s the biggest caveat to this entire article, none of these sequences apply unless you get her isolated, which leads me to my next point…
Psychological Isolation Matters
I can't believe I have to say this but it must be said. Those of you potential feminists reading...
Do not misinterpret this as some type of power trip. Most, if not all dating coaches say the same thing.
That is you must get her one-on-one. No cockblocks. Like I said, the feminine women are the most receptive to men that demonstrate the right vibe to give them positive, good, varying emotions.
That simply means, implement higher status flirting as I always blog about. More importantly, remember that women want to feel swept off their feet.
They dream about prince charming. But more importantly, most women also dream about a man that can bring out her naughty side.
Given the right man, the right time, the right night and the opportunity strikes that she just so happens to be ready for connection...
Women will sleep with you. That might be hard for some of you to believe. But it's true. When you tweak your mindset, you will have same night lays. Time for a story...
Instant Sexual Attraction
Watch the video. Here’s the story as I am going down memory lane…
I saw this chick at the bar, and I didn’t even know her name.
We bantered immediately, and this man saw it as you can see.
I’m letting you all know now. Yes, I’ve flirted with married women.
I have a podcast about to drop on how I attracted married women.
But I won’t go further than flirting with married women. This is another interview with Hannah Spanke that will drop on January 4th.
Unlock the secret to deeper connections—listen to How to Demonstrate Vulnerability featuring Hannah Spanke and discover the power of authenticity.
However, if they don’t have a rock on their finger, I will sleep with them.
What you are seeing is a man who saw this chick got super sexual with me in a public place
“She was all over you.” As you can hear him say in the video. She was talking dirty, making the moment even more intense.
I’ve been called a “boy toy” already. Let that sink in. Most guys are simps.
I literally just met this chick, she made herself available. I drank her drink.
I showed initiative, I looked at her deeply, and engaged in some dirty talk. She got turned on fast.
I don’t care if they are taken, if she is not happy, then she will get the best sex ever that no other man can give her.
Because I’m convinced most men CANNOT give women a seamless seduction that turns them on fast.
Yes, I mean that. She will get the most passionate night of her fucking life. And she will love every fucking minute of it.
That right there is a positive narcissistic self-image that all player's and fuck boys have in common.
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They literally don't give a shit. If she's ready, if her shoulders straight, and feet are pointed towards me, I see the body language signs she's turned on...
Yes, I will take the opportunity to turn a girl on. Some women crave a better naughty experience if their boyfriends suck in the bedroom and she needs to fake an orgasm.
Side note: You better improve your seduction skills if she has to fake an orgasm, that tells me there is no romantic chemistry with the two of you.
Hot Mindset That Turns Women On
Read all books that are taboo. Read The Vampire Diaries, or Twilight. Just put yourself in the shoes of why girls fantasize about a bad 'edgy' guy.
In my opinion, The Vampire Diaries is ten times better because it's decent acting. Just understand what girls LOVE.
Given the right time, the right moment, the right vibe, it's on. Always remember that. ALWAYS.
Here's the Hot Mindset that will turn women on...
I intend to give women a seamless seduction that she will curl her fucking toes.
I will give her the gift of having the best sex of her fucking life.
Cocky? Yes, it is very cocky. That's why high confidence works.
I know deep down that every single women out there who makes themselves available to me...
I will yank them from their boyfriends. And it means that you must have this mentality...
All women want to fuck me. Every women wants me. If they don't want me, her fucking fault, her filter is fucked up.
SHE DOES NOT KNOW THE DEFINITION OF HIGH VALUE.
Only think that if a girl gives you a front, or a bitch shield, but if you give her unwanted sexual advances, STOP USING MY MATERIAL.
You cannot start touching her more intimate erogenous zones without teasing, push pull, and even getting her to feel comfortable with you FIRST.
Turning Her On with Physical Touch
The Power of Touch
Physical touch is a potent trigger for sexual arousal and pleasure. When done correctly, it can create a sense of intimacy and connection, releasing oxytocin and other feel-good hormones that strengthen the bond between partners.
To turn her on with physical touch, focus on gentle, light pressure, and explore her intimate erogenous zones, such as the neck, shoulders, and inner thighs.
Remember to communicate with your partner, asking for consent and feedback to ensure that your touch is welcome and pleasurable. Safety first before I cover the high level shit my friends. ALWAYS ENSURE COMFORT!!
Some key points to keep in mind when using physical touch to turn her on include:
Start with gentle, light pressure, gradually increasing intensity as desired.
Explore her intimate erogenous zones, such as the neck, shoulders, and inner thighs.
Use a variety of touch techniques, including stroking, caressing, and massaging.
Communicate with your partner, asking for consent and feedback to ensure that your touch is welcome and pleasurable.
Be mindful of body language, paying attention to nonverbal cues that indicate pleasure or discomfort.
By incorporating these tips into your intimate moments, you can harness the power of physical touch to turn her on and create a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual relationship.
Remember, the key is to be attentive, responsive, and always respectful of her boundaries. When you master the art of touch, you’ll find that turning her on becomes a natural and incredibly sexy part of your connection.
Playful Teasing and Play Fights Turn Women On
“Why haven’y you been stalking me? I don’t understand. You should see me when I step out of the shower. I grab a towel, dry off and then look out my bedroom window and you know who’s face I don’t see…YOURS. I don’t see your face. You never call multiple times in a row, you don’t text incessantly and you never climb a tree to stare at me through the window. I don’t get it, its makes me so mad. I WANT YOU TO STALK ME. Haven’t you any decency, any self-respect, any care for the desires of another human being? WHAT THE FUCK CHICK.”
:-))
I sent that message, for me, I use the standard smiley face (not the emoji).
B. A. B. E.
Ha. That’s funny. She went in her feminine.
Just remember, with someone like me who has a serious demeanor, using a smiley face can work.
Masculinity leads, feminine follows. The point of showing you this message is this works through texting and in-person.
Understand that play fights can and will lead to sexual tension and act as a significant turn on. If it’s over texting, you gotta close her on the hangout.
Blame All of Your Attraction & Escalation Moves You Make on Her
A story on this one, I actually remember telling this girl, "Why are you doing this to me?"
And she said, "What?"
In the most effective way I could, I looked in to her eye's and said...
"You keep giving me THAT one look with your eye contact. Don't look at me like that."
Then I started doing the undeniable sequence. I'm releasing a podcast on that in the coming weeks.
If you want to turn a woman on, you need to start blaming girls for turning YOU ON.
Did I mention she wear's a g string? :))
The other clothes went on the floor, the rest was history. I ate her out and she fucking LOVED IT.
Evil Way to Turn Women On
"I can honestly tell that you want an adventurous guy to take you on amazing experiences where you can just let go, and have fun, and more importantly, you want a guy who can just bring that part of you up where you just want to feel naughty, and this guy, right? He knows exactly what you're attracted to.
Not only does he know exactly what you're attracted to, but he can just slow down his voice, he has a very subtle squint to his eyes. He also puts the hair behind your ear, looks down to your lips, and then looks back to your eyes, and then he does not kiss you. Let's go find that guy right now!"
You must understand that getting good at seduction requires you to know the dark side of seduction. This right here is no exception.
The reason I call it evil way to turn her on is because it's literally unfair. It goes passed her slut-defense and to her primal brain.
On my podcast, I call this cold reading her sub-personalities.
As you can see here, I'm in the right mood. Look at the world as your personal bedroom as this is a polarizing way to seduce women.
Use your eyes brother. Squint them at the right time. Pierce her soul with unwavering eye contact. Have that seducer's mindset.
This is evil. Not in a bad way. It's in a sexy way. Listen to my voice brother. The reason for sharing this video is you must be in the right mood.
Girls want to FEEL appreciated and understood. Never fucking forget that brothers. All girls have a missing piece in their sex life.
High Level Shit: Cold Reading & NLP Combined
Here is another way to pace & lead her sexual reality, use this shit RESPONSIBLY...
"I can tell that you're girl who's met a serious amount of people, you definitely have a lot of somewhat friends and some acquaintances, but you only have a few people in your life who you truly let in, and you decide to let them to get to know the real, REAL you. I respect that. <PACING>
Really think about this brothers, this will give her a fuzzy feeling because most girls will agree to this powerful statement. After she agrees, start LEADING...
"And I can DEFINITELY already tell, although you're obviously not a girl who gets around, you're comfortable with sex. You've had decent orgasms and good sex. But it hasn't REALLY satisfied you right? It's almost like there is something out there, something greater, and deeper, and richer that's out there but you haven't found it yet. So I'm curious, do you think it actually exists?"
There are subtle hints of NLP in that whole sequence. I want you to give her light touches as you say it. Gently run your fingers through her hair. Practice this first because that is high level shit.
Understand that it requires some ground work to get good at pacing & leading first. Read that article.
I just gave you a preview to the later sequences in this article. Don't forget to touch her on the intimate moments if you use that.
Tell Her What You Want To Do (Whisper)
My favorite way to seduce women easily. Make sure she’s comfortable with your touch first. Women tend to be more emotionally and psychologically stimulated, so building anticipation through verbal communication is key.
Meaning she will be accepting of you leaning in. Works best in isolation.
Brother's I've got some hate for this one I've said on my podcast, what you don't understand is girls have sexual fantasies and they have a dark side. And this will turn her on that is if you get her to feel comfortable with your touch FIRST.
If you want to turn a woman on, understand that you need to take a mixed and nuanced approach.
“I’m going to do unspeakable things to your body when I get you alone in my place later tonight.”
“Imagine how good it’s going to feel when I trace the tips of my strong fingers across the inside your hips and slowly slip off the constraint of these pants.”
“Imagine just how free and exciting it’s going to feel when I kiss you all over your body, but never kiss your lips.”
Always Sexually Challenge Girls (No Excuse)
Brother's I've got haters on my IG lately and they do not understand that girls blood flow increases way high when you sexually challenge girls.
When you talk to girls, keep in mind gentle touches when you lean in and whisper sexy comments.
Qualifying / Challenging lines you can use…
“Don’t worry if you start to feel nervous. I don’t expect you to handle me anyways.”
“You have no idea who you’re dealing with. Do you really think you can handle me?”
“So tell me, Jessica, what is the sexiest and craziest fantasy you’ve ever had in your life? And why?"
“Honestly, I can’t believe you made me think these dirty thoughts of you. But to tell you the truth, I don’t think you can sexually handle me.”
As a dating coach, I understand that many women tend to have sexual fantasies. You need to get comfortable challenging girls first before you sexually challenge a woman.
Being a challenge is a frame of mind, a person you are, the version of you know will always attract, arouse and turn on every single girl ever.
Girls want you to sexually escalate. So touch them on an erogenous zone as you challenge them. Any sensitive area and warm them up after you sexually challenge them to foreplay.
Brother's listen, women have two private areas, the one in her mind and her vagina. Yes I mean that.
All women have this built-in desire to feel understood. Never forget that my friend.
Advanced Pacing and Leading: Not For Beginner's
Taken word-for-word from the podcast above in this article, this is advanced pacing & leading, please PRACTICE this first till it comes NATURAL to who you are and it's not FORCED.
“This feels good being with you here right now, I can tell that you love good sex, relaxing and letting go. But I know that there is a part of you that has always wondered if there is more, that there might be something truly freeing about sex that you haven’t experienced before, or you haven’t experienced it yet...
And you’re curious, you know it’s out there, and there is this part of you that wants to fully be opened up, and be taken by this experience. You wonder if there is a deeper level of sexual pleasure that you haven't yet discovered.”
Do me a favor and listen to the podcast to understand the sheer power behind this entire sequence.
I’m being fucking generous revealing this one. Because this is VERY fucking effective that it GENUINELY speeds up seduction faster than ever.
Remember that she must be comfortable with you. Everything leading up to this point, I’m going to assume that you are a good dude, and you know better than to be weird about this. Be calibrated, be relaxed, be calm, grounded and let it come out naturally.
The Takeaway: How to Turn Women On
Click here to turn girls on by teasing them
It’s not hard to get same night pulls. You must demonstrate high confidence. Come in with high status flirting immediately. Any lines throughout this article you are questioning, that means you aren't comfortable in your own sex drive. Work on that brothers, you cannot be sexually insecure.
Start teasing her, make fun of her (just a little bit), even show some vulnerability the right way. Changes in sex hormones can significantly affect sexual desire and arousal, so understanding this can help you better connect with her. Then get her in to psychological isolation.
I don’t mean you creep her out by that. Not at all. Simply just make sure there are no cockblocks. You are good to go. Clear communication is essential to ensure that both individuals are comfortable and consenting.
Then ramp up desire. The evil way to turn women on will do that. Play fights are extremely effective given the right playful vibe. More importantly, what really makes you stand out brother…
Is that you are relaxed, comfortable in your own skin, and completely grounded and rooted in your own reality. This is having a strong masculine presence.
Getting laid will be effortless when you communicate the right mindset, have high confidence, demonstrate powerful unwavering eye contact and you tell her what she wants to hear by demonstrating an understanding of her sexual world with that pacing and leading sequence.
Just remember this takeaway. Be in a seductive state. Everything will follow. You are fucking handsome. Leave all your comments below. Remember to leave me a five-star review on Apple Podcasts!
