How To Become High Status (In a World of FALSE STATUS Signals)

Have you ever wondered how to become high status? Are you STRONGLY convinced it's about being good-looking, having a shit load of money, or demonstrating significant ability?

Let me add a big caveat, I fully own the fact that I fall under the “looks matters” mold, however, here’s the major point to this entire article that I must say…

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Don't Have Insecurities About Your Looks

Here’s the whole point, in one of my seduction articles, I stated that when you work out, you are in essence higher status, or for lack of a better word, this is a high value trigger.

Meaning there is a big mating switch in a woman’s mind that signals ‘higher value’ when you workout. And here’s the all important point that a lot of guys that make working out harder than what it means to be…

Yes, I know the argument “game overrides good looks.” Leave that in the comments below all you want, however, self-improvement is what all women consider higher value above all.

So if you are lazy and cannot swallow the hard lesson that working out is the gateway to discipline, here’s my suggestion to you. Start improving your style and personal hygiene. Also get good at higher status flirting.

The Basics: Oral Health, Hygiene, & Style

Without that, you are not desirable. I don’t care if you have a six pack, basic hygiene such as brushing your teeth and flossing can lead to gum disease.

If you can get the basics down, brushing and flossing, cleaning your ears, even use tactical soap in the shower, you will have more attention from women.

Individuals with similar social statuses tend to interact predominantly within their own group, emphasizing the importance of maintaining high standards.

At that point of getting basics down, it’s time you stop having insecurities about your looks. If you know you can maintain hygiene and a good style, there’s no reason why you are insecure. That becomes a mindset problem if it still persists.

Be Kind to Yourself on Your Looks

Here’s the all important point that I’ve mastered in my life is I am simply kind to myself, but are you kind to yourself?

Can you start saying positive affirmations and do NLP Modeling?

I’m telling you brother, simple affirmations are really fucking powerful. Becoming higher status is a lot in your mindset.

I address this specifically in my first book I’ve written on why higher status is in your mindset.

If you can talk kind to yourself about your looks, you will even find that this will help you in your fitness journey.

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Mental illness can significantly impact one's social status and interactions, often becoming a master status that influences how others perceive and value them.

A high status person takes care of himself. He has healthy self-entitlement. He puts his health as number one, but more importantly, a high status person stays in shape.

But let’s stick to the dating topic, you gotta understand my friend that half of why you are insecure is your self-talk and your sense of self.

You need to watch your thoughts, because low status men consistently have a victim blaming mindset. This is not healthy, nor is it considered high status to blame outside externalities on your internal state.

Instead of self-sabotage, be kind to yourself, develop better habits to be a better, more high status person.

High Status Vs Social Status

Higher status as I said is everything not faked. In fact, it’s not the words you say to women, it’s the energy behind it that makes it higher status. You can be fat and out of shape, but also make women laugh.

And we see this frequently, men with beer bellies that can pull women. This is because they have accepted themselves. They don’t give a single fuck about what women will say about their beer bellies.

Even though deep down, he still knows that his fitness can improve, this is the guy that I will commend for having game. Good shit brother, keep pulling women if you must.

Just understand that there comes a point where you gotta take in to account getting rid of your vices. Anyways, here’s what social status is my friend.

Think of preselection, you are popular among your friend group. You are the leader of men and women. This is where I fall under.

Connections & Introductions

Become the connector if you want to become high status. For example, introduce friends to people you know. I give examples of this on my podcast How to Become a Local Celebrity with Michael Sartain.

Groups play a significant role in social dynamics and hierarchical structures within societies. Interactions with high status people can influence social hierarchies and individual perceptions, as they activate brain regions linked to reward processing.

Individuals tend to form status groups based on shared characteristics that dictate lifestyle, interaction, and social value.

Position yourself as a leader in your friend groups. But also, it's important that you create your own friend groups in you feel like you don't have enough friends.

I encourage you to take in to consideration the importance of social status. Choose to fight for a cause and get people to follow your lead.

Here’s my cause, I’m here to help introverted men become more masculine in their mindset, and more importantly, I help men get more purpose in their fitness journey.

Money is a False Status Signal

You’ve heard this before in the wing girl method article, but it’s deemed to be repeated. Higher status is not bought through cars, shiny objects and your next dopamine hit if you have a shopping addiction. Wealth, often mistaken for true high status, does not equate to genuine social value.

Lower status men try to be high status. And they do that by building up their value. It's time I tell you like it is in the dating scene...

Women use rich guys consistently. If you want power, I suggest you imply power, don't verbalize it. Don't be try-hard. Don't lead with your resources. But wait, I thought money is high status?...

Girls Use Leaders When They Lead With Resources

No my friend, here’s a harsh reality about rich guys, when girls see you as a provider, they will withhold sex because they see you as a provider.

This has deemed to be true time and time again. I know guys who have bought women flights to go blow more money overseas.

This is extremely fucked up I know. But this is why if you're convinced that making more money is the answer, it will hinder you from getting laid.

Brother, I’ve got a married woman attracted to me in this field report, her husband is pretty damn successful. So you gotta stop believing this shitty limiting belief.

You cannot buy your way in to a woman’s panties. Doctor David Buss constantly says this in his work, “Status and possession of resources are separate qualities.”

I will sear that in to your brain and repeat myself over and over if I have to because society shoves this bullshit down your throat.

Biggest Misconception on High Status

Here’s the biggest point behind this entire article, you’ve been manipulated by friends, teachers, authorities to believe that higher status is all that fake shit.

I’ll give you an example, having a Gucci shirt and wearing $1200 dollar shoes on top of having the most expensive car in the world simply put is you buy that.

After you buy it, you are the same person on the other side of that experience. That means, when you buy something that appears to be higher status, you simply bought that because you want the feeling of what it would be like to show everyone.

Never Try to Act High Status

That tells me my friend that you are try-hard. Yes, I make no illusions to my readers, you are try-hard. As I said in my hater article, this is a low status attempt at being higher status.

Status seekers are individuals who are obsessed with social standing and often flaunt their wealth and achievements to garner recognition.

Look bro, it’s cool if you can afford expensive suits. But that doesn’t really impress me. It just tells me you are still in your ego, and you haven’t fully evolved passed the stage of forced confidence.

All of these are material items that go down in value after you buy it, year after year. Essentially, here’s the point brother, status is not bought through items.

 It Takes Time to Become High Status

Strongly encourage you to listen to this podcast on human mating practices and strategies, dominance hierarchies, female preferences, and they even touch upon one of the most interesting topics in my opinion, the dark triad.

You’ll learn a lot on what women find attractive, what they are evolutionarily attracted to. And by the way, those of you guys that need to have scientific evidence for everything to be convinced, David Buss’s work is based on science.

Here’s the one thing I can tell you about becoming higher status I’ve learned in my life. Among human beings, becoming higher status involves having Alpha body language, an authoritative voice, strong eye contact, and good state control.

However, this is an every day learning process brother. You shouldn’t try to act hot shot because you have the most expensive shit in the world. That’s short-term instant gratification.

Women see right through this. They can tell when you try too hard to be higher status. In fact, they will test you. And if you behave in a low status way, they will immediately look at you like you just went from being a cool guy to a weird guy.

Essentially, I will come out and say to you, even good looking guys can and will mistake higher status for being too egotistical.

I fully own that this may contradict the ego article I wrote, however, you must understand that becoming a high status person requires you to see yourself as higher status before you involve all of that flashy shit.

So really, the right way to become higher status is to make self-improvement top priority.

Practice daily meditation, go to the gym, make more money (FOR YOURSELF), and more importantly, be relaxed, slow and controlled in your body language.

Becoming High Status Requires Leadership

This may be the single most important aspect of becoming higher status and gaining power. As I said, it’s not about short term pleasures and being lazy thinking that when you get one success towards your goals that you are done.

FUCK THAT. Brother as a man, I really gotta ask you, are you willing to push passed your limits? Are you willing to conquer your fears and take big risks to follow your own lead?

Brother, I’m here for you, but this may be the single most important aspect of becoming higher status. You’ve gotta be resilient through adversity.

You cannot become higher status by being lazy, you’ll never convince me other wise. You gotta learn to have values, boundaries, and more importantly you cannot be indecisive!

This is why I have very dark article on persuasion techniques to fire you off of your own lazy fucking ass to be the best version of yourself that you can be.

Here’s the reality brother, the answer on becoming higher status is simple but it’s not what you want to hear. You gotta be willing to do whatever the fuck it takes to persist through the days that you want to tap out and be a pussy.

Becoming higher status requires sacrifice, it requires you to be a mother-fucking man and not throw in the towel. If you are ever indecisive as a business owner, they will doubt your leadership.

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The Bottom Line: How To Become High Status

This is what it takes to become higher status my friend. It’s no easy answer, but it’s worth it in the long run.

I strongly encourage you to listen to each podcast in this article. Even though I focused on dating, this definitely applies to who you are outside of your social life.

When you are the leader of men, it’s an attraction shortcut for women to get turned on. And this is the key to becoming higher status and wielding influence.

Even though in my books I cover the all importance of inner game and high status carefreeness, I want to go above an beyond, give you the most value that I can.

That is to tell you the most efficient way to become higher status in several areas of your life. Don’t neglect this my friend, this article may just even change your life if you take courageous action on your goals and see your vision through.

This article is dedicated to the legend who I worked with during the COVID-19 lockdown, and that is Jason Capital, formerly known as America's Honest Dating Coach, he taught me how to become a closer. Fucking legend.

Feel comfortable to reach out to me at AdamSkoda@MasculineMindsetCoach.com for coaching inquires.

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