How To Make a Girl Obsessed With You Instantly
You are about to discover how to make a girl obsessed with you instantly. I have to add a warning…
My friend, this may be the most powerful article I’ve ever written to date.
I want to tell you a story of Bella the Barista that begged me for attention.
This is what inspired me to write this article…
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How It All Started: Story of Loss Aversion Bias
It began last year. I was at the Starbucks drive-thru, I rejected a woman that asked about coming to the gym I worked at.
I said, “Nah, honestly with how busy I am, and the clients I have, I don’t have room to fit you in.”
Then I saw the desire in her eyes. She got nervous and said, “Lauren, Adam is here!” I smirked and asked, “what’s the hold up?” Bella told me, “Lauren wants to ask you about your classes.”
I wrapped this up very fast and said, “Honestly I appreciate the thought but I told your friend here, I cannot fit you two in to my classes.”
This is how it all started. They both started arguing with each other. I said, “Hey, can I get my cold brew?”
They gave me my drink and I said, “I’ll let you know when I’m more available.” Then I drove off.
This is what happened. True fucking story. And this is a big reason for the warning.
You are about to discover very powerful ways to influence people.
You will learn how to influence women in this article. As you can tell, I triggered what is called loss aversion bias.
Walk with me if you wish down in to the darker areas of seduction…
Why I’m Hesitant to Write This Article
I remember when I first discovered the psychology of persuasion. It was literally all I studied for about 2 years.
I was fascinated and all I did was think of ways to get people to comply in social dynamics.
Common mistake I see guys do is complimenting as a means of persuasion.
Cut that shit out of your game completely, you’ll trigger friendly feelings in her mind.
It became clear to me when I played the field that I discovered the best way to persuade women is to give them full range of emotions.
You can mis-use anything and quite frankly, I’ve dealt with stalkers because of what I’m writing about.
So my dude, I want you to write down your morals.
REQUIRED TASK TO COMPLETE
WRITE DOWN YOUR MORALS
Why do I want you to write down your morals? Because when you get in to this game, you are responsible for every situation you get yourself into. That means if you don’t, you are likely to get yourself in a shitty situation.
I’ll tell you one more story before I proceed…
About 5 years ago I was in an LTR with an Italian woman, and I went to a concert with her, little did I know I saw Christina. The woman that said “I won’t come to the concert.” After I told her not to, she had no respect.
She knew that my girlfriend at that time would be pissed off. She came anyways.
Christina had a crush on me and the preselection triggered desire even more.
I told Christina over and over, “I’m in a relationship. Respect that.” Did she do that?
Not at all. I saw her and my ex at that time said, “Adam, why is that slut bitch staring at you?”
So I walked up and I said to Christina, “you need to leave, I asked you not to come.”
That’s what you’re dealing with when you make a woman obsessed with you.
One more big point – persuasion is going on every day. Look around you. Stop acting like it’s not happening.
It’s in business, negotiations, social dynamics, seduction, and more importantly, you can’t ignore that.
7 Ways To Make Her Obsessed With You
I want to first tell you that how you trigger obsession fast is you must let go of expectations.
That means you have to be completely detached from outcome of having sex with her.
What I mean to say is don’t put her on a fucking pedestal like most guys do in order to get an outcome.
Demonstrate non-neediness, preselection, and a strong masculine vibe, you will easily trigger attraction and attract girls.
However, that doesn’t mean she is one of those women obsessed with you yet.
Avoiding the friend zone is crucial; balance friendliness with flirtation to maintain attraction.
What I want you to do is become more attractive and an Alpha Male.
Relationship experts suggest that maintaining a sense of mystery can significantly enhance your appeal.
Then secondly, make her feel comfortable.
Don’t go ass backwards that most guys do which is make her feel comfortable first.
That’s a nice guy habit. All nice guys build too much comfort, not enough attraction.
What you want to do is attract her and then make her feel comfortable.
So you might be wondering, how does that make her obsessed?
My friend, that’s the foundation for creating and triggering obsession, that’s having frame and non-neediness.
I’m literally just getting started 😉
1. Follow Your Own Lead, Be Your Own Hero
I really want to run this point home. You cannot trigger obsession when you follow other people’s lead and you are influenced by others. That is neediness and shows a lack of financial independence.
You have to influence yourself to be your own hero. Literally, everyone will see how you value your time and your energy. Low value men give up their time for women.
You are a man on your path and you’re decisive to make your goals happen. You’re ambitious and everything that matters to you is making your goals a reality.
This is why women are turned on by a man on his path, but turned off by a man that put’s her in the masculine role. Never put a woman in that role if you want to create obsession.
From the story in the beginning, I clearly followed my own path, and I didn’t just say, “oh you can come to my class.”
No, honestly, I was very busy and that’s communicated by what I demonstrated when I left fast and lived my own life.
It’s time that we turn this up a notch. I’m going to give you some fantastic ways to get her obsessed in this next section. 😉
2. Give Her Space To Chase After Foreplay
So I want to tell you that this really only works if you’ve already hooked up with a woman, but you just did foreplay and ONLY foreplay!
It’s preferred that you stop the physical escalation after giving her head. Why?
Sexual attraction is created in space. I mean that. Stopping intensifies desire my friend.
It’s very powerful. Women think about you when you’re not around.
They are wondering what you’re up to. And it makes them want your attention my friend.
It’s also important not to talk about other girls. Discussing other girls can make her feel insecure and less valued, which can harm the connection you’re building.
Then what happens as a result, she is going to hit you up. Trust me my dude, this fucking works.
Just read this message here. I’ll tell you some of the context, I gave her the best. head. ever.
Then I left without having sex with her.
Here’s what I can guess you’re thinking, why not just go for it?
Sure, I hear you, but stopping physical escalations is a powerful takeaway.
Think of it like this, if you just got sick duck from a woman and she says, “Let’s wait to have sex.”
I’m willing to guess that you’re going to want to have sex.
How do I know that? Well it’s simple. The desire for sex is very real for a lot of people, not just men.
“I don’t want you to try anything, when we see each other again.” 😉
Drop that one, see how interested she is in your manhood. Her respect for you goes up BIG TIME.
3. Make Her Shudder With Powerful Oral Sex
Bro, I want you to learn where the clitoris is. Then and only then can you stimulate her.
A story comes to mind from my podcast, 3 Gambits to Show ASSERTIVENESS.
Listen attentively to how she moan’s. Read her body language, build trust, and show her what’s up.
This is hands-down one of the most effective ways make her obsessed.
Damn brother’s, if you can give girl’s good head, she will want to keep you around 😉
Women will call you the “Go Down Champion.” LOL
The point here is to make her climax.
No really, if you think just staying down there for a few minutes is going to make her cum, you thought wrong.
You must make her shudder my friend. I want you to put her on cloud nine.
Give her such a powerful orgasm that she screams.
You’ll be remembered for that forever.
Be that man all women fantasize about.
I want you to give her the gift of a very intense clitoral orgasm.
She will be obsessed.
Did I mention I have even STEAMIER STORIES in my hardcover book?
Fuck bro, I would go above and beyond in the bedroom and FUCK HER BRAINS OUT.
After giving girl’s a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm.
4. Embody Being The Challenge
This legendary method on how to make a girl obsessed is dedicated to my podcast called…
3 Ways to Get Her Obsessed With You (No, I Really Mean That!)
No, I am not including Strawberry Fields in this article, I have another article covering that.
Here’s what it means to embody being the challenge…
She is attracted to the man who knows how to be a challenge to girls, the man who actively and passively challenges her.
She is repelled by the man who does not challenge her in some way or fashion on an ongoing basis.
That means, in conversation and in time together, you’re constantly challenging her in a playful way, and on a macro level, you’re always a challenge for her she’ll never fully get
Because deep down, she never actually wants to. A quick example is from the Bestselling Book, Art of Seduction. That is the coquette.
One of his biggest draws is that the woman will never be able to fully satiate her thirst for him.
5. Loss Aversion Bias Field Report
I went to college for psychology and communications, what a coincidence. LOL.
Have you ever heard of loss aversion? It’s like you want to avoid losing something. Let me explain.
People want to avoid losing what they want. So in my case of the story I referenced from the beginning, it’s time we talk about it.
I went to Starbucks and these two baristas Bella and Lauren wanted to talk to me.
It was obvious, because they both showed IOI’s. That means indicators of interest. They asked about my classes.
“I don’t have time to fit you in my fitness classes, I’m super busy.” That’s what I said to them.
They asked why they can’t come to my fitness classes.
This literally got Bella to literally BEG for my phone number.
Ever since, I see her here and there, Bella loses her shit. She literally became mad that I wouldn’t give it away.
That triggered strong desire in them both. Make sense?
You’ll see that loss aversion is used by players quite frequently.
Why? It’s because they understand that humans want what they can’t have and they push away women.
The more you push women away, you’ll realize that it plays a positive effect.
The pain of losing something that someone wants is more powerful than giving them what they want (that is gains).
I told you from the beginning my friend, this article is crazy, powerful shit.
6. When Texting Her, Fall Off The Map
This is similar to loss aversion but applied in texting. And it’s very powerful when you do it the right way.
I want you to fall off the map, meaning you leave the interaction when you’re either flirting, or texting dirty.
Why? Here’s what happens. She is going to start looking at your social media.
She’ll see what you’re up to and find other means of contacting you.
I’m sure you think falling off the map is just leading her on.
It’s all a part of getting her attracted man. I didn’t invent the rules. It’s been around for years.
Think of it like taking away attention from your phone. That’s a high value in-demand move.
She might think you’re with other women. You want the preselection to be in her head.
That preselection spike does help, but don’t make it look like you’re hooking up.
7. Demonstrate A Strong, Masculine Vibe
This may be the most important part of being that bad, edgy guy that women love.
All women love a man that can take social pressure while maintaining his composure, and be assertive.
It’s often why women test men to begin with. They want you to win!
But if you fail their congruence tests, honestly, you are not in your masculine energy.
Because when they test you, it’s important you remain nonreactive (or misinterpret their test).
Either way, they want to know that you have a backbone.
You do that by simply being masculine and don’t have shame surrounding it.
I can’t tell you how many times the women I’ve been with tell me “I love that you don’t take any shit.”
It helps them feel safe, that you can take care of them, and more importantly, they will crave your strong, masculine vibe.
This is what women want, they want to know that you’re a man, not a wimp. They dream about a strong man that can take care of them in all of the right ways 😉
The next section covers the lighter sides of dating since I just covered the darker sides of game. You need to know two sides of the coin when it comes to dating & attraction.
Bonus Section
Emotional Intelligence is Essential
Emotional intelligence is essential in building a deep emotional connection with a girl. It’s about being aware of your emotions and the emotions of others.
When you’re emotionally intelligent, you can navigate complex emotional situations with ease, which will make you more attractive to girls.
Most women are drawn to men who can understand and manage emotions effectively. It shows maturity and emotional dominance, which are highly valued traits.
When you can empathize with her and respond to her emotions appropriately, you create a safe and supportive environment. This kind of emotional connection is incredibly powerful and can make her deeply obsessed with you.
Create Memorable Experiences
Creating memorable experiences is key to making a girl obsessed with you. It’s about being authentic and thoughtful in your interactions. Listen to her desires and interests, then tailor your experiences accordingly.
Aim to surprise and delight her at every turn. These moments build a connection that goes beyond words, embedding you in her thoughts long after the day is over. With each unforgettable experience, you become not just a love interest but a cherished memory.
Imagine taking her on a spontaneous road trip to a scenic spot she’s always wanted to visit, or planning a surprise date that aligns with her hobbies and passions. These thoughtful gestures show that you’re paying attention and genuinely care about her happiness.
Most girls will remember these moments fondly, and they’ll associate those positive feelings with you. So, go the extra mile to create experiences that stand out. It’s these unique, shared moments that can make a girl obsessed with you.
Authenticity is Attractive
Authenticity stands out in today’s world where many people hide behind masks. Being genuine to yourself is like a breath of fresh air. Women are drawn to authenticity and value someone who doesn’t pretend to be someone they’re not.
Embracing who you are, flaws and all, is what makes you attractive. When you’re authentic, you exude confidence and self-assurance, which are highly attractive qualities to women.
Think about it: people hide behind facades because they fear rejection. But when you show your true self, you demonstrate courage and self-respect. Most women find this incredibly appealing because it shows you’re comfortable in your own skin.
So, ditch the act and be real. Share your true thoughts, passions, and even your vulnerabilities. Authenticity is magnetic, and it’s a surefire way to make a woman obsessed with you.
The Power of Mystery
Being a bit mysterious can catch a woman’s interest. You don’t have to reveal everything about yourself all at once. Letting things progress slowly, especially in the early stages of dating, adds to the sense of mystery.
Mysterious men often come across as confident and independent because they don’t feel the need to share everything. By keeping some things to yourself, you create an air of intrigue that can keep her interested and invested in getting to know you better.
Think of it like reading a captivating novel. You don’t want to know the ending right away; the suspense keeps you hooked. The same goes for relationships.
When you reveal your layers gradually, you keep her guessing and wanting more. This doesn’t mean playing games or being deceitful; it’s about pacing the flow of information.
Let her discover you bit by bit, and she’ll be more likely to become obsessed with uncovering the mystery that is you.
Show Genuine Interest
Showing genuine interest in a woman is crucial to building a deep emotional connection. Listen attentively to what she has to say, ask thoughtful questions, and show her that you care about her thoughts and feelings.
When you show genuine interest, you create a sense of mutual respect and understanding that can lead to a strong and lasting connection. Most women appreciate a man who takes the time to listen and understand them, and it can be a major turn-on.
To make a woman obsessed, you need to go beyond surface-level conversations. Dive into topics that matter to her, and be present in the moment.
This means putting away distractions and focusing entirely on her. When you listen attentively and respond thoughtfully, you show that you value her as a person.
This kind of deep emotional connection is what makes most women feel truly seen and appreciated, and it’s a powerful way to make her obsessed with you.
Flirting Techniques
Flirting is an art that can be mastered with practice and confidence. When done correctly, it can create a spark of attraction that can lead to a deeper connection.
Use body language and non-verbal cues to show your interest, such as maintaining eye contact, smiling, and leaning in when she talks.
Make silly jokes and playful comments to break the ice and create a lighthearted atmosphere. Just be sure to respect her boundaries and don’t come on too strong, as this can be a major turn-off.
Flirting is all about creating a fun and engaging interaction. Tease her playfully, share silly jokes, and don’t be afraid to be a little cheeky. This shows that you’re confident and comfortable in your own skin.
Remember, the goal is to make her feel good and enjoy your company. When you can make her laugh and feel at ease, you’re well on your way to making her obsessed with you. So, keep it light, keep it fun, and watch the sparks fly.
Summary: How to Make a Girl Obsessed with You
You now know how to make any woman obsessed with you. Tread lightly my dude.
I’ve had women literally offer to give me head in the bathroom with the stuff I just shared with you.
You’ll find that being masculine is hands-down the most powerful way to get compliance from woman.
Why? Because, if you demonstrate your assertive, disagreeable side to your personality, they see you as a man that can lead them.
Women want you to lead them. I don’t mean be a stubborn and arrogant, I mean learn to disagree, stand up for yourself and show that you follow your own lead.
Why is that so attractive to women? It’s because they are turned on by a man that values his time and lives life decisively, with purpose and passion. It ultimately shows that you’re ambitious.
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