Many men have no clue how to become a high value man, however, I'm hear to tell you today a more vulnerable article about me to tell you all that I didn't always consider myself a "High Status Alpha Male."
In fact, I was by all intensive purposes, an obsessive motherfucker. Most psychologists would screen me for impulsive behavior. That may be why I promote healthy narcissism. Lol.
However, what I want you all to understand is you are about to read more about where I started.
So let's dive in...
The Truth About Discipline, Confidence, & How to Become a High-Value Man
Most men chase clout—but this guide shows you how to command undeniable status that makes influencers look like amateurs.
I wasn’t always disciplined.
I wasn’t always confident.
And I definitely wasn’t high-value.
There was a time I looked in the mirror and barely recognized the man staring back.
Not because of how I looked—but because of what I lacked.
I was drifting.
No mission. No momentum. No masculine purpose.
And it showed.
Not just in my body—but in how I moved through life.
Even my own self-talk was filled with doubt.
But something shifted.
And now…
IBTimes is telling my story.
Here's what I learned about confidence at a young age, I learned that you don't get it from reading books.
And this is coming from an author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset.
You should know about success habits. In fact, I always promote improving mental strength through reading.
However, this can often lead to isolation, and as we know from my podcast How to Stop Feeling Like a WEAK MAN!...
Isolating weakens every single man on the face of this earth. You need to get out your head and balance out your social life with your independence.
Discipline isn’t a Habit. It’s Identity Work.
Every guy wants to “build discipline,” but most of them do it backwards.
They try to stack habits… read books… watch motivational videos…
In fact, one of my mentors wrote The Dark Side of Discipline. Shout out to Craig Ballantyne.
You do not want to AVOID tasks that are urgent and important. That is what he often says.
However, here is what I learned about men... its because I figured this next part out myself...
Deep down, they still see themselves as the same weak man they were last year.
You don’t get disciplined by doing disciplined things.
You get disciplined by deciding you are no longer available for weakness.
That’s what I did.
And that’s what I teach in Alpha Body Bootcamp.
This program builds character. It's a roadmap to get disciplined. No I'm not just blowing smoke...
I literally still do my own program to keep my fucking promises to myself to this day.
This is how to be a high value-man. It's not about having fancy watches or living in a massive house.
Confidence comes From Proving Yourself to Yourself
If you don’t trust yourself to follow through, you won’t radiate confidence—no matter how many compliments or affirmations you get.
To be clear, I have Alpha Male Affirmations on my blog, but you need to fucking say each statement
With complete conviction, and self-belief in the powerful statement.
This is why some people don't really use affirmations. It's because it feels off. That's the problem.
Affirmations aren't worth shit if you can't have CERTAINTY behind it.
You need to understand that confidence advice nowadays is overrated. Here's what you must understand...
Positive self-talk and confidence comes from proving yourself to YOURSELF.
Just show yourself you are congruent with your word.
It’s built when you earn your own respect in the dark…
At the gym…
On the days you don’t want to show up. You still show up.
That’s how I built mine.
And yes, I'll admit to you all, I did not understand integrity throughout my early 20s.
That's me being honest with you all. I'm not perfect, but I now understand that confidence comes from within.
How to be a High-Value Man Isn’t About Flash
It’s About Having Power
Real high-value men don’t chase approval. They follow their missions.
They aren't afraid to deal with past traumas. They understand inner work is essential to be a high value man.
They radiate presence. They show the world who they are, no apologies.
They command respect. They lead. They have a strong frame.
And they do it without saying a word.
But to become that man, your body, your mind, and your habits have to be aligned.
How to be a high value man is you enhance your masculinity.
And you don't feel shameful about it. You are now proud of that testosterone you have.
That’s exactly what my program was built to do.
A lot of you may notice how much I talk about this on my podcast...
It's because I am fucking proud of what I've done to change HUNDREDS of lives throughout the years.
You will get more power. How do I know? Just go through "Fast Muscle Gains" article.
Read how Gabe improved his life. This is my mission, to help men understand that fitness is a way of life.
It is the single most important habit that I recently said on Guys Knight Podcast...
"Working out saved my life at the young age and it helps most men get out of a dark place."
Alpha Body Bootcamp is not Another Fitness Program
It's an Initiation on How to Become a High Value Man.
So here's your last chance to change your life for the better.
Inside, I’ll show you:
- How to build up to 15 lbs of lean mass in 12 weeks (even if you’ve been stuck for years)
- How to rewire your mindset for dominance, discipline, and confidence
- And how to become the man women want and men respect
I don’t work with just anyone. But if you’re done playing small…
If you’re tired of feeling invisible, overlooked, and stuck in the same loop…
Apply for the program. Be a man of your word. Here's the most important point on how to be a high value man
You need to prove to yourself you can keep the promises you make to yourself. And be congruent.
One last big point to discipline is you need to start out with fitness first. There is no other way around it.
Feel free to comment below. I know this article may seem harsh to people who struggle with being consistent.
But that is the truth about discipline. You need to get HONEST with yourself and stop choosing easy solutions.
Such as looking up free workout plans. That shit gets you bad results quickly. I've learned that too many times.
Feel comfortable to share this article if this has helped you. I'd greatly appreciate that.
