How to Be a Challenge to a Woman

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Understanding What Makes a Woman Attractive

Understanding what makes a woman attractive is crucial in creating a dynamic where she feels challenged to win you over. While physical beauty often catches the eye, it’s not the only aspect that makes a woman captivating. A woman’s confidence, independence, and sense of humor can be just as alluring as her physical appearance. Imagine a woman who walks into a room with her head held high, exuding self-assurance and a zest for life. That’s the kind of energy that draws people in.

Moreover, a woman who is passionate about her interests and goals can be incredibly attractive to a man who values intelligence and ambition. When she talks about her dreams and aspirations with a sparkle in her eye, it’s hard not to be intrigued.

Remember, not all men are attracted to the same qualities. While some guys may be drawn to a woman’s physical beauty, others may be more interested in her personality, values, and interests. As a man, it’s crucial to understand what you find attractive in a woman and to look for those qualities in a potential partner. This self-awareness will help you connect with women who truly resonate with you.

Creating a Magnetic First Impression

Creating a magnetic first impression is vital in making a woman feel challenged to win you over. When you first meet a woman, it’s essential to make a good impression by being confident, genuine, and respectful. A simple smile, a firm handshake, and direct eye contact can go a long way in creating a positive first impression.

But it doesn’t stop there. Your body language, tone of voice, and the way you carry yourself all contribute to the impression you make. Stand tall, speak clearly, and let your confidence shine through. When you exude self-assurance, you’re more likely to attract a woman who is drawn to those qualities.

Remember, a magnetic first impression isn’t about putting on a show. It’s about being your best self and letting your natural charisma do the work. When you’re genuine and confident, you create an aura that’s hard to resist.

Flirting Mindsets: I'm Not Easy, I'm Not Sold

This article is going to give you some of the best challenging lines and vibes you can give attractive women that will get them EXTREMELY turned on.

Listen up brothers, girls love a man who knows how to be a challenge. Why do girls love a challenge? It's because you make her FEEL EMOTIONS.

Understanding and utilizing body language is crucial in creating attraction. Read her correctly brothers, I say this consistently.

Are you ready to learn how to be a challenge with girls? Are you ready for Adam's favorite way of higher status flirting? Here's your new mindset when flirting... I'm not easy, you need to win me over.

If you want to learn how to attract a woman, you also need to have the mindset, I'm not sold on you. And you need to show me your personality before get MY ATTENTION. Brother's listen, women value male attention.

By being a challenge, you set yourself apart from everyone else trying to court her. Once you understand that, to an attractive woman, cool guys are SCARCE, then dating beautiful women becomes easier than dating average-looking girls. 

Challenge with Non-Reaction Seeking Behavior

Often, I see guys do this stupid shit. It’s called reaction-seeking behavior. And I’ll be honest, when I started doing this about 8 years ago, I did it too.

But now, because I do my Internal Validation Visualization from my hardcover book 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset…

I literally could give a single FUCK if I get good or bad feedback. If she doesn’t like the fun challenge I am, she’s just a bitch. Yup, I’ve convinced myself that.

Learning how to relate to attractive women, if you don’t have a lot of experience with them, is difficult to master, but we can show you how.

That’s why I wrote Closer’s Guide to Seduction. In this book, I discuss how to start communicating with attractive women in a challenging and masculine way.

So here’s what men will do, they will search for a reaction. The flashy shit. Did she just blink? Does that mean she’s attracted? Did she lick her lips?

Is that tension? She’s touching her hair now. Is that tension?

The mere fact that you are looking for any reaction makes you low value.

Listen to me, all of you reading this article…

If you are reaction seeking, you will kill all sexual tension. Write that down.

She knows that she has found a guy like you who makes her feel amazing and she has got something to lose now.

She needs to improve herself and impress you, otherwise you may lose interest in her.

So here’s the first way on how to be a challenge with girls… Focusing too much on what she's thinking can create an imbalance in the relationship dynamic.

Push Back Challenges

So if I meet a younger girl, and I don’t know her age, I may say something like…

“You know what, you look like you’re 21, maybe even 19.”

She says, “I'm not that young, what makes you say that?”

And I’m like, “Like I don’t know, maybe it’s just because you’re so innocent-looking. You just come off as innocent and really naïve, and it’s kind of cute.”

They don’t want to be called innocent. This sets an expectation that triggers cognitive dissonance.

So if I make a comment calling her, *“Innocent and naïve,” *obviously, this is going to push her to blend in to my mold.

Meaning she is following my lead. This is why it works. I’m not just making blanket statements my friends, go test this out, seriously, and you will see it work for you.

“Yeah, you just come across as very young, it’s probably because you’re just such an innocent girl.”

Do you see how this can come across as a challenge to girls? Fun shit. I love girls and their feminine energy :-))

However, if she’s being difficult, not available for dates, not responding to texts or phone calls. Stop chasing her. Most guys struggle with challenging women and often end up being too compliant. This can lead to a loss of attraction. Instead, create a dynamic where she follows your lead.

Building a Connection with a Challenging Woman

A challenging woman is often independent, confident, and strong-willed, which can make it difficult to build a connection with her. However, with the right approach, you can create a deep and meaningful connection with a woman who is challenging.

The key is to show genuine interest in her life, interests, and goals. Ask her questions, listen actively, and show empathy and understanding. Avoid trying to impress her with grand gestures or material possessions, as this can come across as insincere. Instead, focus on building a connection based on mutual respect, trust, and communication.

When you take the time to understand her world and show that you value her for who she is, you create a foundation for a strong and lasting connection. This approach not only makes her feel valued but also challenges her to invest in the relationship.

Balancing Independence and Connection

Balancing independence and connection is crucial in any relationship. A woman who is challenging often values her independence and may need space to pursue her own interests and goals. However, she also needs to feel connected to her partner and valued in the relationship.

As a man, it’s essential to strike a balance between giving her space and showing her affection. Avoid being too clingy or possessive, as this can come across as suffocating. Instead, focus on building a connection based on mutual respect, trust, and communication.

By doing so, you can create a dynamic where you're woman feels challenged to win you over and valued in the relationship. This balance not only keeps the relationship healthy but also keeps the attraction alive.

Challenging Questions to Ask Girls

Powerful questions to ask girls. Sexual questions to ask girls. Let’s get right to it shall we? Have you been through my article Easiest Way to Get Laid?

That's clearly a click bait title, because let me tell you something... Girl's don't want to be considered EASY. The point for bringing this up is you need to get her attention FIRST. Then challenge her.

Let’s say you travel for work, my man Steven, shout out to this legend, girl magnet that charming badass. Here’s something you can use…

“You know I’m new to this part of town… I’ve noticed that a lot of the girls here are really kind of prude, and they’re not that much fun and they’re all listening to their parents and what they taught them when they were young. And they forget that they can follow their own instincts."

The point is that when you challenge, you spark that conflict between you two.

Conflict and tension will always win.

“When was the last time you were really jealous? And why?”

“What’s the sneakiest trick you play on guys to attract them?

“What do you value most in someone you’re sleeping with?

These are some very good questions to ask girls to get to know them and challenge them to think about their sexuality.

It's also important not to reveal everything about yourself on the first few dates, as it ruins the mystery and excitement of getting to know each other.

Cocky Funny Vibes is How to Be a Challenge to Girls

This is when your masculine mindset coach has his most fun with girls.

I love being playfully cocky. It’s my favorite style of game. Shout out to Double Your Dating.

“I love me, I just like mirrors in general, all mirrors are just cool with me, I just love my sexy self.”

Why does it spark tension? Should I even elaborate? Ok. Let’s go…

Girls often think in the back of their heads… “Who does this guy think he is? I have to make sure he is who he says he is.”

Understanding how a woman feels in these moments is crucial. She might feel intrigued but also wants to ensure you're genuine.

At this point, she may test your playful cockiness. Be PLAYFUL brothers.

Maybe she might say, “You seem kinda cocky.”

Just respond with, “I know.”

Charming shit brothers! I’ve seen girls face turn red when I do this.

Then she will laugh. “You look really nice tonight.”

Just respond back with, “I know.”

Maybe she even says, “You’re really funny.”

You know how to respond to that right? :-))

Brother's don't be TOO over-the-top here and start kissing every girl to SHOW OFF. Because that is not a healthy ego.

Onward we roll…

Qualify & Challenge Girls Effortlessly

There is something called Social Norm Dominance. [R]

Social norms bias, it’s basically the same shit. Often when you bring up certain topics, girls will want to follow your lead.

Social Norm Dominance states that often people will want to behave what they think is correct in social norms and what they believe is accepted in the social situation. Either way, let me give you an awesome challenging comment first before getting to the steamier sequences

"You actually really seem fun to talk to, you came out here tonight, but my group, we party harder, and there is so much more fun to be had with us, I'm not sure if you can really hang out with us, but you're off to a good start..."

Get her qualifying, then challenge her. Powerful shit brothers. Steal this.

Love that shit. Notice how it's not super harsh like how I sound on my podcast sometimes. Let's keep moving forward.

Here’s how we can leverage this brothers and start talking about sex. Getting girls comfortable and attracted first, that matters before you bring it up. Understanding what qualities matter in a relationship is crucial for maintaining attraction. Mastering these techniques can significantly improve your dating life.

“Have you’ve ever noticed how weird some people get about sex? It’s so strange even today in the 21st century some people still get weird about it.”

You’ve just did some pacing & leading. Good job.

Make sure she agrees first, then start leading…

When girls agree, that means she’s qualified herself to you.

“You really enjoy sex and all of the variety, don’t you? No worries, you can tell me, I won’t judge anything you like to do."  Brother's, never judge girls. Seriously, they get sensitive about this topic.

More qualifying and challenging lines that you can use, read her comfort first my friends, like I said, some girls are sensitive. Deliver these when she's thinking about having fun with you...

“Don’t worry if you start to feel nervous, I don’t expect you to handle me anyways.”

“You have no idea who you’re dealing with, do you only know like five sex positions?”

“Honestly, I can’t believe you made me think these dirty thoughts of you. But to be real with you, I don’t think you can sexually handle me.”

Qualifying Questions You Can Use with Girls

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I covered challenging questions, cocky funny vibes, now it’s time to discuss qualifying questions that you my friend must use…

Y’all missed out on getting your copy of Hilarious Lines and Evil Cold Reads.

You’re all lucky that I’m going to reveal only ONE of the qualifying sequences.

“I take it that you are a very bad girl, aren’t you?”

That is an excellent qualifying question. Ask when you see sexual attraction signs.

“Like I bet underneath all of the social niceties, you are a free spirit in the bedroom. So what’s it like being such a naughty girl?”

That’s all I’m revealing from that manual. In a long term relationship, it’s important to maintain a challenge and not be controlled by your partner’s expectations.

Most men fail to challenge women and end up losing their interest. Here are some more qualifying questions, This positions you as a challenge. 

Some more awesome qualifying questions.

“You’re definitely a rebel I can tell. How’s that working for you?”

“You seem very comfortable with me.”

“Are you adventurous and spontaneous?”

“What’s your ideal vacation spot? And why?”

“How good of a kisser are you?”

Let’s move on to the Starfish Test.

Challenge Her to The Starfish Test

You don't want to sleep with a starfish, do you? Good. I'm glad. 

Remember social norm dominance. Get her talking about sex FIRST.

Introduce this test as a fun game to play.

“Have you ever been challenged to the starfish test before?”

The first question is…

“Do you ever watch porn by yourself?”

Remember, this introduces sex right away. Eliminate any limiting beliefs about seduction.

She will tell you if you have the balls to be bold and hold your ground.

The second question…

“What’s your secret move to turn a guy on?”

Damn, this is getting steamy for her to think about. She has no choice but to QUALIFY when thinking about her answer.

The third question is the question you’ve wanted to ask the entire time ;-))

The reason for the first two is simple, you need to warm her up.

Massive mistake, you go 0 to 100. Fucking horrible and this is how you will come across as a pig.

Listen brother's I know I sound naughty as fuck on the introduction of my show, but you need to PROGRESS slowly to this ballsy question...

“What’s your favorite position to get fucked in?”

Ah shit, I forget about my player reputation. Ha.

If she knows the answer immediately, she is adventurous and a free thinker. She is good in the sack.

If she doesn’t know the answer, then she is a boring starfish.

Some girls may not want to tell you, and just remember, if that happens, it means she is fighting against her urges.

Because if she does tell you, they’re getting very turned on. And if they tell you, that means that they’re basically saying they want to fuck you.

Some girls will giggle and blush. They might even play coy for a second.

How to be a challenge with girls, that’s right, it’s time you show her what’s up.

“Seriously, you can tell me. Don’t worry, it’s not like you have a shot with me anyways. I’d have to show you the ropes and get you up to a higher level before we go there.”

The Takeaway: How to Be a Challenge

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This article is inspired by a podcast I just recorded called How to Be a Sexy Challenge with Girls.

For example, I recently acted cocky in front of a woman named Alexis and she kept flirting with me, then I asked her a qualifying question.

Lately, she has started FLIRTING with me sexually. Here’s what I want to say to all of you…

If any of this makes you nervous, then I suggest you start out with the push back challenges.

And remember those flirting mindsets, I'm not easy, I'm not sold. Because let's face it, most guys are EASILY SOLD based on physical appearance. Now you know better. 

Slowly work your way up to social norm dominance. Be normal. Be fun and be a challenge, not like every other guy. I love you David D’Angelo.

This article is my tribute to the legendary pick-up artist, he taught me the power of being a challenge.

Remember not to put too much pressure on yourself. And you fucking got this brother. See you legends next time.