3 FIRST KISS Strategies (Guaranteed to Work!)
Are you mentally prepared for me to give you first kiss strategies? Because this article is hands down going to get you that first kiss, I can promise you!
Listen brother, this shit I've used countless times and it's going to work for you, so I want you to take my word for it, okay?
Awesome. Let's keep going. You need to prepare girls for that memorable experience that they dream about such a thing. You need to understand that the first kiss needs to make her feel breathless.
Preparing for a Memorable First Kiss
Preparing for a memorable first kiss can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking, but with the right approach, you can make it an unforgettable experience. Here’s how to set the stage for that perfect moment:
- Choose the Right Time and Place: Timing and location are everything. Whether it’s on a first date, after a school dance, or in a small town setting during a quiet evening at home, make sure you both feel comfortable and relaxed. The right setting can make all the difference.
- Be Confident: Confidence is key, brother. Take a few deep breaths and try to relax. It’s natural to feel a bit nervous, but don’t let it show. Confidence is attractive and will make the moment more special.
- Make Eye Contact: Eye contact is essential. Look into her eyes and hold the gaze for a few seconds before leaning in. This builds anticipation and makes the kiss more meaningful.
- Keep Your Lips Soft: No one wants to kiss dry, chapped lips. Make sure your lips are soft and kissable. Avoid licking your lips or applying too much lip balm, as it can be distracting. Soft lips make for a better kiss.
- Be Respectful: A first kiss is a special moment, so be respectful of her boundaries and feelings. Make sure she’s comfortable and willing. Respect is sexy, and it will make the kiss more memorable.
By following these tips, you’ll be well on your way to creating a memorable first kiss that she’ll cherish.
Understanding the Psychology of a First Kiss
A first kiss is a monumental event, brother. It’s not just about the lips meeting; it’s about what’s happening in your brain. When you share that first kiss, your brain goes into overdrive, processing the experience as something extraordinary. Research shows that emotionally charged moments, like a first kiss, are etched into our memories more vividly than other events.
Why? Because your brain’s reward system kicks in, releasing dopamine and other feel-good neurotransmitters. This makes the experience pleasurable and exciting, creating a strong emotional bond with the person you kissed. So, when you go in for that first kiss, remember, it’s not just a kiss; it’s a memory in the making.
First Kiss Strategies Requires Seducer's Mindset
First Kiss strategies are going to work for you if you have a masculine mindset
First Kiss strategies are going to work for you if you have a masculine mindset and understand the nuances of kissing.
Brother, get in to the right mindset. You should know this as this is the BIGGEST tip I always give in my seduction articles as it requires you to be ready for pure seduction mode.
Remember, even as a young girl, she has dreamt of this moment, making it all the more important to approach it with the right mindset.
All of the first kiss strategies I discuss, you must understand the importance of having the right mindset. Half of you guys get awkward as fuck when you don’t know how to escalate.
It shouldn’t be as hard as you make it. In fact, you gotta make her want it my friend. I’m going to give you ways to amp up anticipation.
You see, here’s the biggest mistake most men never understand about the first kiss and leading up to it…
Biggest Mistake All Men Make With First Kiss Strategies
Here’s what most guys do, they turn in to fucking idiots. No I really mean that. You get all fucking weird, like SHE has to make the move, but she feels the exact same way, nervous and unsure.
It’s like waiting alone on a school bus, feeling the weight of loneliness and disappointment, while everyone else seems to have it figured out.
That’s not how it works man. Not at all, women want you to be in the masculine role, they want you to build it up, make them feel breathless.
Her best friend will love you for learning this mistake. Why? Because most guys make this common mistake by tensing up and not RELAXING. By you learning this, you are separating yourself from all of the rest of the men who refuse to learn what turn’s girls on.
I am giving you first kiss strategies that will take their breath away. Fucking hot. Believe me, this shit is super fucking powerful. So let’s keep going...
Relax and Don't Tense Up to use First Kiss Strategies
Using any of the first kiss strategies, you never want to tense up.
Here’s a big tip I noticed a lot of dating coaches do not talk about when they discuss first kiss strategies…
They never mention anything about being tense and how this can kill all sexual tension.
Brother, you must relax and don’t tense up. Often women look at your frame and how you’re leading the interaction, especially as a young adult.
And you tensing up can cause her to put up her defenses and decline all sexual advances moving forward.
Overcoming Nerves and Anxiety
Feeling those pre-kiss jitters? Totally normal, my friend. But here’s how you can keep those nerves in check and make the experience enjoyable. First, focus on the present moment. Forget about what might happen next and just be there, in the now.
Take a few deep breaths, relax your muscles, and let go of any expectations. Communication is key, too. A simple “is this okay?” or “do you want to kiss?” can make a world of difference.
It ensures you’re both on the same page and comfortable. Remember, a first kiss is about connection, not perfection. So, relax, breathe, and let it happen naturally.
Strong Eye Contact Builds Connection
Alright, brother, let’s get down to the nitty-gritty of going in for that first kiss. Start by making solid eye contact and giving her a genuine smile. This builds the connection and sets the stage. Lean in slowly, don’t rush it.
Let your lips meet gently. Keep your lips soft and relaxed, no one wants to kiss a pair of stiff lips. Don’t force it; let the kiss happen naturally. And hey, if it’s a bit awkward, that’s okay.
It’s all part of the experience. Just enjoy the moment and see where it takes you. Whether it’s on a first date or a quiet evening at home, make that first kiss count.
So really take this in to consideration, alright? Awesome. Now that I got that all cleared up, I’m going to give you a little teaser of Closer’s Guide to Seduction.
I'm Not Going to Give You Maneuver
This is one of the most powerful first kiss strategies
Don't forget, you have got to use push/pull, throw in some false disqualifiers and then here’s what you say to her…
“Honestly, I know for a fact that I’m way too much for you right now. In fact, by the you’re looking at me I can tell that you want to kiss me, but we’re not going to go there no, I’m not going to kiss you.”
As you look at her lips seductively. Then back to her eyes. Now she’s REALLY turned on, trust me, I’ve used this one a lot!
So lean in, get in her space, and do this brother, as you lean in…
“I’m not going to kiss you, I’m not going to kiss you, I’m not going to kiss you.”
Reverse Psychology
Reverse psychology is one of my favorite first kiss strategies
I have a podcast in the queue about to come out on reverse psychology, it’s fucking awesome. Reverse psychology can be particularly effective when dealing with the societal pressures surrounding first kisses.
I love this shit brother, so damn powerful, consider using this one! Here’s my quick brain dump of all the value on my mind as I remember when I used it:
“Don’t look at me like that. Stop it. Not cool. Why are you doing this to me? Are you serious right now? Don’t smile at me like that either. Can you stop teasing me with your eyes? What the fuck? Come on now chick. I’m just trying to be neutral right now, and you got me feeling all lightheaded with those bad girl eyes.” :-))
So damn powerful and so much fun. I encourage you to use this one every time with women you meet as one of your first kiss strategies. This obviously can be led to The Undeniable Sequence.
I will not reveal that on my blog, seriously, it's that damn good. Listen to my podcast, enough said.
Creating a Powerful Image in Her Mind
Tell her about a man who she wants to kiss, tell her about a man who knows her world. From a young age, girls dream about prince charming. Never forget that.
Think of it like the innocent excitement of a first kiss at church camp, where every moment feels significant and memorable.
“When you meet a man that just understands you, he knows how you want to be kissed, he looks down to your lips, you see your lips met his in your mind. When this guy talks to you in a certain way that just turns you on right? You want to kiss the guy, but then he makes you work for it. He takes his time. He knows exactly how you like being kissed.” 😉
End that whole sequence by looking down to her lips. For her first time kissing you, this sequence is something she will never forget. Her first crush never did this to her, I can guarantee you that.
You want her to feel ready. This helps her see the image in her mind of prince charming giving her that unforgettable, romantic scene in her mind. FUCK, this shit is super powerful.
Advanced Infatuation Cold Read
You know your masculine mindset coach cannot have a complete article without some type of evil cold reading that fucking WORKS.
What I mean by evil, is it is EXTREMELY powerful when delivered with high confidence.
This one again takes practice, but if you can pull this off, awesome, props bro. I encourage you to do this as one of your first kiss strategies. Think about the last time you kissed someone and how it felt.
However, I recommend this one for advanced guys because this requires you to be bold and have the healthy ego to pull this off and believe in yourself.
Again, I want you to look for attraction signs, I’ll list a few:
She body scans you
Breathing faster than usual
Strong eye contact with dilated pupils
Here’s what you say to her my friend, again, you gotta be sure she’s ready:
“Listen, stop feeling the way you’re feeling about me. You’re clearly infatuated with me. You shouldn’t be feeling that way about me. Honestly, I’m like a drug chick, kiss me once, and you’re instantly addicted. I’m honestly bad news. Dating me would be like chaos. You're friends will want to know all of the dirty details."
Again, this takes full self-belief, any insecurities you have, you gotta throw that away because this requires full self-belief to pull this off.
You’re welcome my handsome friend, you’ll want to add this in your seduction arsenal, it fucking works.
Challenge Her to a Staring Contest
We covered I'm Not Going to Kiss You Maneuver, Reverse Psychology, Creating a Powerful Image, and even Cold Reading. As I stated in the podcast, challenge her to a staring contest.
This is one of the five ways to kiss women, and it's very fucking effective. Women love challenges.
Drop this at the right time, the right moment, the right night, and watch what happens 😉
"We're not going to go there, I just want to look in your eyes right now. Let's have a staring contest and see if we can not kiss each other with all of the tension going on right now."
And then, you look at her lips, then look up to her eyes and say my favorite one-liner...
"Stop corrupting me with your seductive eyes, I'm not that easy. Stop looking at my lips, I'm not going to kiss you."
She may even challenge you back and say the same thing. Drop this after a few seconds of staring...
"The only comforting thought that I have left about you, is the fact that I assume that you're a mediocre kisser."
Brother's, you need to be CALIBRATED. Only say that if she isn't hypersensitive. And the tension is there, she is staring in your eyes.
This triggers cognitive dissonance, a powerful psychological bias.
Now, get closer, and closer, and closer to her lips, it's time to break rapport!
When You Escalate, Break Rapport
Last major key tip here, my dude. When you use any of these first kiss strategies, I want you to break rapport during the seduction.
Breaking rapport can make her want to come back for a second kiss, amplifying the initial attraction.
This triggers FAST desire, I’m not fucking kidding. Let’s just say you do a little bit of reverse psychology, here’s what you do brother…
“Stop doing that.”
She says, “Doing what?”
“You’re eyes, when you look at me like that, it gets me all fucked up stop it.”
She gets excited. Women obviously love a bold man that can pull this off with a strong masculine frame.
Entering Her Space Turns All Women On
This is when you enter her space even more my friend. Now say this..
“You just don’t listen, do you? Clearly you don’t listen. I don’t like you anymore.”
Now you’ve broken rapport. Fucking powerful shit right here, brother.
She might say something like…
“I don’t think I ever liked you anyways.”
Good response, make sure you get this kind of response before proceeding.
By this time you gotta lean in closer my friend, and stare in to her eyes very seductively and say this..
“I’m not that easy.” Takeaway.
Remember, these two words, escalate and release. Releases are takeaways.
First Kiss Strategies Review
Use all first kiss strategies as they are guaranteed to work for you!
Use all first kiss strategies as they are guaranteed to work for you and lead to memorable kisses!
Let’s go over how you can get any woman turned on extremely fast leading up to the first kiss…
I’m Not Going to Kiss You Maneuver
Reverse Psychology
Creating a Powerful Image in Her Mind
Advanced Infatuation Cold Read
Challenge Her to a Staring Contest
Bonus Tip: When Escalating, Break Rapport
Bonus Tip: Make a Lasting Memory
Each one has its place, I’d say starting out, you’re best to do reverse psychology. Then when you get that down, move on to “I’m not going to kiss you.”
After that, definitely give the infatuation cold read a shot, but you see she’s highly attracted first and you know she is.
Because you can drop any of these at the wrong time and they won’t respond the way you want.
The Bottom Line: First Kiss Strategies
Being a legend and doing each of these does require practice. However, if you practice this with a naughty tone, it will make it that much more powerful.
As you can see I've over-delivered in this article. Work your way up to the advanced cold reading.
Do yourself the favor of always going over these first kiss strategies as you will increase sexual tension the way women like it.
You always gotta read her comfort level. If she shows any resistance, pull away, don't try again till you notice she's more receptive.
Because a woman's safety is number one. Never make women feel unsafe, I'll fucking get you in to a rear naked choke if that's you.
Feel comfortable to leave me any comments, questions, and concerns.
You are a charming stud for taking action 😉
