Dark Side of Seduction: NovemberMan Sequence

Have you ever heard of NovemberMan Sequence? I can guarantee you right now that all of my readers are about to embark on a dark journey starting out this article, because this is the dark side of seduction. This article contains general mature content and may not be suitable for all readers.

Yes, I make no illusions to my readers. There are light and dark sides to getting good at pick-up. And without knowing both sides of the coin, you will not know how to seduce girls effectively.

You need to know about the light and the dark side of seduction. This gambit is like a mild version of OctoberMan. That sequence I’ll never use, to be clear.

Understanding the Dark Side of Seduction

The Dark Side is a powerful and seductive force that can consume individuals, as seen in the Star Wars saga. It’s a path often associated with anger, fear, and aggression, leading to a loss of control and a descent into chaos.

Think of Anakin Skywalker’s transformation into Darth Vader—his journey to the Dark Side was marked by intense emotions and a struggle with his inner demons.

The Dark Side is also a symbol of the shadow self, representing the repressed thoughts and desires that lie within us all. Understanding the Dark Side is crucial to gain insight into the human psyche and develop strategies for overcoming its pull.

Just like in Star Wars, recognizing and confronting our darker impulses can help us maintain balance and avoid being consumed by them.

The Psychology of Seduction

Seduction is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon that involves the use of psychological manipulation and persuasion to influence others. It’s a key aspect of the Dark Side, as exemplified by Darth Vader, who uses his charisma and power to seduce others into following him. The psychology of seduction involves tactics such as emotional frame control, and coercion to gain control over others.

It’s a powerful tool that can be wielded for both good and evil, requiring a deep understanding of human psychology and behavior. Just as Darth Vader lured others to the Dark Side, understanding these psychological tactics can help you navigate the intricate dance of seduction, ensuring you use your powers responsibly.

Brothers, I'm about to tell you a story of a seduction in which I used pacing & leading where I used natural woman pattern. This is the ONE TIME where you'll hear me say this. Seduction can be used for both good and for evil. In this case, I used it to bring out her WILD SIDE. We had amazing sexual chemistry, so it was used for good :-))

Everyone reading this article, understand this before I proceed. Your words can influence others. And you need to be responsible with your words. Seduction is the HIGHEST form of influence.

Seduction Lay Report

When two people embrace each other FULLY… The man goes in to his masculine energy, the woman surrenders and goes deeply in to her feminine energy and here’s how I seduced her… 

In the pre-production phase of seduction, it's crucial to plan and understand the initial stages of connecting deeply.

She said, “Do you want to use the blindfold?” I said, “Yes. Give me a minute.”

I looked at her deeply, I could hear her panting. I gazed at her in the eyes. I said to her…

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“Let’s warm up to that, first, we will give each other a massage.”

I grabbed the massage oil. She asked me, “Do you want me to massage you?”

I told her, “Yes. Quick question babe, do you really think most men understand women? I think most men don’t.”

She said, “Why do you say that?”

I responded, “I believe most men don’t know about a woman’s natural side. Wouldn’t you say most girls have a sexy side?”

She responded, “Well yeah, that’s true for most girls.”

Now you see, I just paced her reality when she agrees to the frame of the interaction.

I followed it up and I told her…

“Most girls have a public side. This is the side that everyone sees. Most girls put up a certain type of face to fit in to different roles, you get me?”

She then said, “Why are you talking about other girls?”

Ignoring her test, I told her, “Well, it’s only to communicate to you that most girls are programmed by society. Sometimes we all have to behave in certain ways and play certain roles, but it’s not who we are underneath.”

Then I looked at her deeply in a very seductive state. And I said to her... "The other side is the natural woman. The natural woman is a sexual creature, she has deep passionate thoughts and she exists in a natural state. So it's NATURAL for her to feel sexy and for her to want sex and feel wild and free."

Now, this is where shit got REAL. I didn’t even get through the entire sequence. I simply used anchoring by touching her on her neck, and I looked at her deeply in her eyes and I did the soul gaze.

Brother's the soul gaze, requires a full article, just understand that you need to look at the girl you are talking to in her eyes. I could have used open loops, but my voice was seductive enough that she was turned on.

So this right here is why I have to tell all of you something…

This sequence doesn’t need to be remembered entirely. Perfectionism is a cockblock. Don’t worry about getting this perfect. What you need is to believe.

Understanding the behind-the-scenes aspects of seduction, much like scenes footage in a documentary, is key to mastering the art.

Have Healthy Intentions

You need that seducer’s mindset. You need to do daily meditation. You need to know about female psychology to understand the most innocent girls that have a soft exterior, they are the NAUGHTIEST in the bedroom.

You need to understand that ALL WOMEN have a sexy, natural side. That is why this sequence is so damn powerful. To be clear, I do not like Ross Jeffries.

Just read this article to understand that. Even though this is a pattern, and it does take inspiration of knowing seductive patterns, that doesn’t mean I like the founder of speed seduction.

I do not encourage the way Ross teaches this shit. I never will. He has ulterior motives the way he uses his own material. Here’s the thing…

I never had ulterior motives on how the lay report was pulled off. I simply had a connection with her. I understand that most girls have a sexy, natural side.

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I understand that all women want to be seduced the right way with class. They want it to be done in the hottest way possible. They want it to be a night they will never forget.

The one thing I remembered when I pulled this sequence off, is that this sequence shouldn’t be used with unhealthy intentions.

Be Calibrated and Read Her Correctly

Never drop this sequence when she doesn’t want to hear it. Never drop this sequence if she is putting up a front. Never drop this sequence if she doesn’t even like you.

No I don’t mean that in terms of she’s being playfully physical with you and being sassy. I mean you need to read her correctly. You need to have social intuition. This is why most guys cannot pull off seduction gambits properly. This requires unparalleled access to exclusive insights into seduction techniques.

It’s because if for example, you try using a different gambit, or you drop a tease from this article, you need to know how she wants to be seduced. Some girls won’t be seduced the way you seduced your ex-girlfriend.

You need to be a detective. Find out what turns her on. In the case of that lay report, she loved giving me a massage. She heard my seductive state. She loved my seductive voice. And she gave me a massage. And shit really got dirty. Mastering these techniques can have the scale and impact akin to the world's biggest seduction strategies.

Let’s cover a few notes on the NovemberMan Sequence…

How to Use Anchoring The Right Way

This sequence can and will get girls to want to kiss you. No need for using the cocky funny one-liners on my podcast. 

Believe me, you need to have a strong frame behind using anchoring to really pull this sequence off. Don't overthink anchoring.

Anchors are more powerful than you think. The more senses they will engage, the more powerful this can be pulled off. Therefore to anchor things to yourself you will do the following:

• Point to yourself casually (Visual)

• Use specific words she uses for mirroring (Audio)

• Touch her in a specific place (Touch)

To anchor things away from yourself, you will do you the following:

• Takeaway attention (Visual)

• Use a different tone of voice (Audio)

• Brush her away (touch)

NovemberMan can be used early on after meeting a woman, but you just need to at least see two signs of interest. No interest, this will not have an impact. Also, she needs to feel safe in your presence.

You will have to involve the storytelling to use open loops. Tension loops are closely related to open loops. You will see how this gives girls an emotional rollercoaster as I go through this whole gambit.

Building Rapport and Trust

Building rapport and trust is a cornerstone of any successful relationship, whether it’s personal or professional. In the Star Wars universe, the bond between Obi-Wan Kenobi and Anakin Skywalker serves as a prime example of how trust can be both built and broken. Throughout the Clone Wars, we witness the development of their relationship, highlighting the importance of trust and loyalty in the face of adversity.

In the world of FMV games, building rapport and trust with the player is essential for creating an immersive experience. Super Seducer 2, one of the most controversial games in recent history, explores the complexities of building trust and rapport in a virtual environment.  

Understanding these dynamics can provide unparalleled access to the deeper aspects of human interaction, making the game both engaging and thought-provoking. What's with the Star Wars stories you might be wondering?

It encapsulates the importance of building that initial trust in relationships in that story. Simply put, you need to have her trust. Be smart brothers, don't use this gambit without you having a solid foundation in the relationship.

Step 1: Cold Read Her Personality

"Do you think that most men understand women? I think that most men think that they understand women or at least have a pretty good idea about them, but I don't feel like they really do understand girls like you."

When she agrees with her, start LEADING. This right here is pacing & leading.

"I believe that most women really have two sides , wouldn't you agree?"

Remember, you want her saying, "Yes." This is called compliance momentum.

"The first side is the public side, the side that everyone sees. This is the side is (her name). This is the side that plays different roles. But these are just roles. The way this person act is programmed by society. Sometimes we all have to behave in certain ways, or play certain roles, but it's not who we REALLY are behind closed doors."

Now it's gotten personal. You've cold read her personality. EXTREMELY POWERFUL.

Natural Woman = Her Sexy Side

Think about this for a second. Girls are perceptive. They all have a side to themselves that they don't want anyone to know. 

You might think, how does this work? Brother's, throw out your damn skepticism and understand that you don't need critical thinking skills when it comes to implementation. Let's get to it...

"The other side is the natural woman. The natural woman is a sexual creature who has fantasies, and deep passionate thoughts. She exists in a natural sexy state of mind."

Leave it there. You don't need to state this word-for-word in the podcast. 

(While describing the natural woman, it's time to use anchoring by touching her gently in a particular spot, can be her arm or her shoulder.)

"But we live in a public world where women have put up a certain type of face. They have to lock up their natural side in order to fit into the roles that society forces on us. And I bet it takes a certain type of guy to find that key that can unlock the passions of the natural woman."

(Create a negative anchor when talking about her public side by taking away attention with your eyes.)

Step 2. Use Tension Loops 

“The contrast between these two sides can be interesting. I think that the contrast can give us insights into truths about ourselves. It’s like we discover more to ourselves than what meets the eye. For example, have you ever taken a sauna and jumped in an ice cold lake?"

“You should try jumping in to an ice cold lake. My family has a cabin by a lake, and on cold winter nights, we like to be adventurous and jump in the sauna. My uncle is a little crazy, so he likes to turn it up where it’s really fucking hot. It gets so hot that you can’t even move. It’s that intense. The heat will wash over you. It makes you want to get out and jump into the ice cold lake. It’s super refreshing. It’s like taking an ice cold shower. Jumping in to the lake, you feel those two different temperatures.”

By now you use hot & cold communication with tension loops. Stay with me brothers. Just be confident, don’t second guess yourself.

Creating Emotional Connection

Creating an emotional connection with your audience is a key aspect of storytelling, as brilliantly demonstrated in the Star Wars saga. The tragic fall of Anakin Skywalker to the dark side is a powerful example of how emotional connection can be used to convey complex themes and emotions.

This narrative arc not only captivates the audience but also provides a profound commentary on the nature of power, fear, and redemption.

In the documentary “The Dark Side of Seduction,” the team behind Super Seducer 2 grapples with the ethics of creating a game that pushes the boundaries of what is considered acceptable.

The film provides unparalleled access to the team’s creative process, offering a unique insight into the challenges of creating an emotional connection with the player.

By exploring the darker aspects of human nature, Super Seducer 2 aims to create a deeper emotional connection with the player, making it a more memorable and impactful experience.

This approach mirrors the emotional depth found in Anakin Skywalker’s story, making the game a compelling exploration of the human psyche.

I probably lost some of you due to the fact that this requires you to develop an emotional connection. Here's the whole point, seduction takes time. And seduction requires you to have emotional masculinity. Don't misinterpret that term, what I mean is if you want this gambit to work and have impact...

Then you need to throw away your preconceived notions for two seconds because you need to have that EMOTIONAL connection, that means, you can't just RUSH through this gambit. Be present with her and give her a positive emotional experience. 

Step 3. The Feeling of Loss 

Tell a story on how you lost a pet. Or how you lost a friend. Or how someone passed away. Listen brothers, part of the reason I don't like canned routines is the incongruence behind it. 

I really did lose a dog that you hear in the podcast episode. So be congruent. Don't make shit up. But for examples sake, I'll give you something to remember.

"It's sad though my uncle had the most amazing furry little friend. He was a beautiful beagle named Meesha, and he was the most loyal, loving dog you'd ever meet. He would wait by the door when you went out, and jump up and lick you when you came back. He was such a special dog. But then one night my uncle let him out and he never came back."

Do you know what EMOT means? Requires a full article. Just say this with genuine emotions. This is why I hate making shit up. Think of a pet that ran away or passed away.

Leave it short. You don't need to tell two stories like I did. Just have a strong frame and believe in yourself, lead confidently. 

This pattern is supposed to get her feeling those rollercoaster of emotions. If you do EMOT properly, she will feel your emotions. This is called emotional contagion. 

Step 4. Her Shadow Self

It's time to encourage her to give in to her WILD SEXUAL SIDE. 

"It's love and loss, hot and cold, it's all connected. Life is all about opposites and polarities. Look at the Yin and Yang, the mixture of light and dark. While all these things are opposites, they are all necessary for one another. And when you step back far enough, you can see that it all points to the same spectrum."

"And just like everything else, you as a person, you have a light and a dark side, or you could say that everyone has a shadow. Your shadow is a hidden side. A side that you hide away from society and sometimes even from yourself. It's a place of passion, and secret desires, where anything is possible...

You would like to let that part of yourself out. Because your shadow wants to experience excitement, sex, and being wild and free. Sometimes you would like to just let go, and let your shadow side free, and enjoy all of the wonderful experiences it would bring you, but you know you must keep it hidden away."

Speak seductively as you hear me in the podcast. But don't sound super cold. Just listen to how my voice sounds.

"We all know that everything that is repressed only grows stronger. The harder you press against a spring, the harder it will press back. Just as a person's shadow grows longer and longer as the day wears on, the things that you repress grow stronger and stronger casting a longer shadow as your life goes on. And if you don't express these feelings, eventually the the sun sets, and there is nothing left, but shadow."

"Yin and Yang is about balance. The balance of light and shadow. Imagine that you could see your shadow, what do you think it would look like? What if you could step into the shadow and become one with it. How do you think that would feel?"

The Takeaway: Dark Side of Seduction

Alright brothers, if you've made it all the way to the end, damn, I GENUINELY want to meet you. Because using this sequence must be done with a good heart. If you can pull this off, fuck, that's impressive.

I've used bits and pieces of each step, I find that girls CONNECT with you more, do not overlook storytelling of a pet that ran away. And you can get a kiss. Lean in closely for a more seductive kiss close...

"Honestly, I know right now that you want to kiss me by the way you keep looking at my eyes, and by the way you're breathing really hard and panting and anticipating that moment, you just feel like you can EXPLODE."

This sequence may sound strange to you but let's think about this, most dating coaches know that there are two sides of learning pick-up.

It can be fun, but it can also be a CHALLENGE to practice NovemberMan Sequence. Listen to me brothers, pull this off correctly, even though it is the longest Gambit I'm sure you've came across. Be mindful of using the last part as that is the most POWERFUL PART.

The reason I say don't use it in the podcast because it's very effective. Just believe, and make sure you are congruent.

You must know about the dark side of seduction. But you gotta know how to use this the right away. And it takes experience. 

Feel comfortable commenting any suggestions on future gambits you want to know about.

I love you all <3