The Boyfriend Destroyer: 7 Ways to Get Taken Girl's Attracted to You

This article is inspired by a recent incident in my life when I unknowingly found out that someone who I know that has a boyfriend and yes, I got a taken girl attracted very quickly after she said to me... "Why haven't you asked me out yet?"

In which I replied, "I told you I am currently not emotionally on the market." She knew I said this consistently. After that, it's like she assumes I'm going to tell her another story where I have to deal with another girl who cannot keep her hands off me. Now brother's to some of you, this might seem way out of your reality. 

However, I want to encourage you all that if you work on your game long enough and you practice social skills consistently... You can get taken girl's attracted to you. 

In fact, this is called Female Hypergamy. Women are hypergamous by nature so don't get it twisted, even if the girl you have your eye on is flirting with other guys in front of you... She can still get attracted to you. Hard time believing?

Throw out your preconceived notions on what you believe because time and time again, even my beliefs about women have been challenged when I see how attracted girls get to you when you are higher status and you give them the roller coaster of emotions

How to Get Taken Girls Attracted to You

Ok brother's, I know a lot of you may have your eye on that one girl. That tells me you're not in abundance. If you are only focused on ONE GIRL and she just so happens to be in a relationship, I have to question if you are a moral man. 

However, sometimes it's okay to throw away your morals, that is if she is unhappy, so those of you that have SEEN the man be blatantly rude to her girlfriend, then I'm okay with you taking courageous action on this article. 

Don't get it twisted brothers, although I have an article on why assholes get girls, it doesn't mean I want you to be one. In fact, I really should go deeper on what that article REALLY means... You need to have a dark side that refuses to be taught to be good. That means, only the girl you see knows your dark side. Got it? Good.

You attract taken girls simply by demonstrating confidence or even cocky funny humor. That story from above? Yeah I remember telling her... "You know I'm handsome right?" She responded... "My man is tall."

I smiled and said, "Cool. So the height is what you base on a man's personality?" Do you see how I'm being completely sarcastic behind that comment? Brother's, if there is one huge SECRET to getting past a woman's bitch shield, sarcasm wins every fucking time.

Tell Her You're Good at Keeping Secrets

If she is getting attracted to you because you are flirting with your eyes, and you listen to my podcast, you start passing her tests with humor, then here's an all important tip on how to get taken girls attracted to you...

"So I have to tell you a quick secret, you think you can handle it?" She says, "Yes what is it?" 

You tell her a true story about how someone tried getting you attracted to you but they didn't succeed. And then afterwards, you tell her, "Is there something that guys do that gets you attracted?"

At this point, I want you already in deep rapport with her. I want you sharing vulnerabilities with each other. She needs to trust you. Now you must tell her this powerful statement.

"Don't worry, I won't tell anyone what it is. I'm good at keeping secrets. You can open up with me."

Now she will open up and potentially tell you anything that her man is not doing right in the relationship, that is if you are smart and you don't just pester why you think he isn't good for her. That raises her defenses. 

Depending on what she say's, it's time to tell her this all-important statement if she implies that he is needy for examples sake... "Well, you should understand that he probably doesn't have much going on, you're the only thing in his life that makes him feel important. Without you, his life would be a little sad, so you really can't blame him, he probably needs you." 

Do not disrespect her and start telling people what she says. Because then you lose her trust. Women screen for congruence.

Can He Really Please You?

Well fuck, this method on how to get taken girl's attracted to you is definitely a little immoral. But you know what? Most people are aware of my Machievelli mindset, so keep reading. Please use this with a girl who already trusts you. 

Start that all-important banter, then progress to more vulnerable stories again and now here's how you warm her up to this powerful pacing & leading statement.

"Do you think men understand you? I think most men think they understand girls but it's not like every man knows everything about female sexuality." 

She will respond... "Well not all guys know what I like. It takes a certain type of guy to bring that out."

Now here's where the boyfriend destroyer comes in to play. Yes I'm telling you this WORKS. Be comfortable in your body language. Start leading the interaction...

"I'm sure he may try to please you sexually, but he can't because he's not fully comfortable in his sex drive. It's like the guy with a really hot girlfriend who ends up cheating on her with someone less attractive since she makes him feel better about himself. He might not know his own self-worth. But you should bear it for a while."

He's Too Predictable and Not Fun Anymore

I want to give you a scenario where she might be a bit catty. Or maybe he's a bit complacent, and you have to point that out. 

"I noticed you really want to know about my man. What's the deal with that?"

I suggest you steal the frame and tell her... "You're obviously a strong woman, and you're not afraid to go for what you want. He might not know that about you or maybe its been awhile since you showed him that side of yourself."

Now she will follow and reciprocate... "Yeah, I always get what I want. But things seem stale with my man right now."

Respond back, "Maybe its been awhile since you two have become so close that you are more like a sister to him now than a lover. He's really secure with you so he doesn't really feel like being spontaneous and fun anymore. Don't you see how most relationships evolve? It tends to just fall flat and it's the same boring routine."

He's Not Opening Up With You

Remember that you need to be completely comfortable and confident while you talk to girls. This is how to get taken girl's attracted to you. 

Let's say she feels like he is kinda distant. Probably never open enough for her. She wants him to open up. Remember this brother's, you do not become TOO UNAVAILABLE.

That means if you are not giving her enough attention, you better hope some other guy isn't reading this blog. 

"It seems like he isn't there for you the way you want him to be, am I right?"

"Yes. That's correct." This is called a micro-yes, we want compliance momentum. 

"He's probably afraid to fully open up to you since he feels that he doesn't really deserve someone like you. If he opens himself up, you may not like what he reveals. Communication is obviously important in any relationship, and I can understand where he's coming from, but for you, it might not be right fit if it continues..."

Does He Really Know You?

This plays on the idea that everyone has a dark side. Yes, women also have a dark side, don't get it twisted, they are not always goodie two shoes. 

Get her opening up to you first because this requires lowering her defenses. Be calibrated. Not every girl is comfortable revealing skeletons, so don't do not get her feeling uncomfortable sharing her secrets. Trust is everything. 

"I have a feeling that maybe he might not know everything about you..."

Why do you think this works? It's because girls operate through their FEELINGS. That question is really fucking powerful to ask any woman with a boyfriend.

"I kinda get this vibe like you haven't given all of yourself to your man, have you? I get it, people's hearts can get burned, so you've probably hidden parts of yourself that you don't want him knowing." 

Brother's, please use that with care. Believe me, this creates that all-important bubble between the two of you and then she REALLY feels connected to you.

When Was the Last Time You Had Your Way with Him?

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Wow fuck, I'm just getting more immoral. Told you guys I'm a tad evil 😉

Seriously use this with care as well. I have done this and it works. Ask her...

"When was the the last time you had your way with your man? And why hasn't he done anything yet? 

Lean in if she likes it brothers. This is what you tell her...

"Has he even showed you the SEX God Method? I'm only guessing, he has no clue what that is."

Fuck, that's super powerful. This sequence gives me the chills with how much I know it works.

Follow it up and say, "Isn't it frustrating how many men have no clue how to REALLY show you the variety in the bedroom?" 

This gets her qualifying. Oh yes it does. Again, use this with CARE.

Don't You Get Tired of Grown Men Acting Like Boys?

Yup, I'm kinda crazy. Have a strong frame when delivering this, along with every fucking sequence in this article.  

Full self-belief in this statement. You need to have full self-acceptance.

Everything leading up to this, I hope you're taking notes right? Ok, lets go...

Ask her this question... "Don't you get tired of grown men acting like little boys?"

Ask her that after flirting and bantering and you know her man sucks at flirting.

She might say... "Yeah it's a bit annoying." 

You respond, "Try not to be mad at him, ok? It's just that you are probably the highest caliber woman he's ever dated. And he knows that if you ever left him he would never find someone of your quality again. He's probably worried."

That's humorously dark. But also fun 🙂

The Takeaway

Women love a man who can teach them about their own relationships and teach them about their own sexuality.

Which means, each of these are equally as powerful. Do not use this unless her boyfriend is genuinely a douchebag. 

I remember causing some fights with some of these and I can tell you all that you will spark sexual tension if you have what it takes to take action. 

Feel comfortable to comment below any questions and concerns. Butt hurt boyfriends, stay away from my podcast. Lol.